Traditionally in Ireland, every January 6 the women of Ireland, who have worked so hard over Christmas, are celebrated throughout the country on Nollaig na mBan, aka Little Christmas or The Feast of the Epiphany.

January 6 is a special day in Ireland when we celebrate the women who worked so tirelessly during the holiday period.

Nollaig na mBan (pronunciation Null-ug na Mon)—Little Christmas or the Feast of the Epiphany as it is more commonly known—marks the end of the 12 Days of Christmas, a Christian feast day celebrating the manifestation of the son of God on Earth. It is said to be the day the three kings arrived in Bethlehem at the stable of Jesus Christ to offer him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.

Traditionally in Ireland (and apparently in Puerto Rico also), Nollaig na mBan is the day on which all the Christmas decorations must come down—not before or after—or else risk bad luck for the rest of the year. When holly was the only decoration in Irish homes, it was taken down on this day and burnt.

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Nollaig na mBan can be translated from Irish (Gaelic) as "Women's Christmas" and in this lies the biggest Irish tradition on January 6. On this day, the last day of Christmas, women would, finally, get a much-needed rest after catering to everyone during the festivities. An article from the Irish Times in 1998 joked that even God rested on the seventh day, Irish women didn't stop until the twelfth! 

In rural and small-town Catholic Ireland, especially, women would gather in each other’s homes or local pubs for a few stolen hours of gaiety while the men looked after the brood.

Speaking to the Times, Irish scholar Alan Titley remarked that the tradition was most common in the west of Ireland in a litany of different ways. "Most women in west Kerry would have raised five or six turkeys for sale at the Christmas market," he said. "They kept the money – like egg money – and if there was anything left over after Christmas they spent it on themselves."

Did you celebrate #NollaignamBan?! Cork & Kerry pubs reported a near 100pc female clientele!

— (@EvokeToday) January 7, 2015

A common phrase was "Nollaig na mBan, Nollaig gan mhaith" (Women's Christmas, no good Christmas), referring to the lack of plentiful feasts by the time January 6 came around.

"But us women would go visiting that afternoon. It was a very simple celebration, just eating a slice of currant loaf in someone's house and having a cup of tea and a chat, but that was the day you'd do something for yourself and have a rest after all the Christmas work," Siobhan Fahy from Ballyferriter on the Dingle peninsula told the Irish Times.

On the eve of Women's Christmas (Oíche Nollaig na mBan – the subject of a famous Irish language poem by Seán Ó Ríordán featured below), twelve candles were often lit in the windows. In some areas, different people lit each candle and the first candle to go out was said to be the first person to die. Rushes pulled, dried and dipped in tallow were used if candles could not be found. 

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To me, this is a wonderful holiday as it reminds us, as Irish people, about the strength of Irish women, especially mothers.

I am sure those of you who have been lucky enough to experience in some form the famed "Irish mammy" will agree that nothing or no-one compares.

Before Ireland was flooded with money and “notions of upperosity,” the women who went before us were the backbone of the family and they seldom received much credit for rearing large families.

These are the women who would have celebrated today and been thrown by the insanity of a few hours peace to themselves with their female comrades from the neighborhood.

My two grandmothers raised 15 children between them, which has many benefits for me as a grandchild and niece but had obvious drawbacks for them as mothers.

Our female ancestors in Ireland would think nothing of manual labor such as saving the turf, cutting the hay, and whitewashing the barns. Magically, they would juggle such tasks with cooking for their large broods, cleaning, and going through childbirth every few years.

In old Ireland, there was no mistaking the fact that the woman’s place was traditionally in the home.

Of course, this fact seems like an insane concept to Ireland’s new breed of high-powered, well-educated women.

Despite our evolution, the heart and soul of Irish women remains unaltered.

When catching a flight back to New York, my mother got up at 5 am to make tea and cut thick slices of her homemade brown bread, smothered with her homemade jam, simply because that is what Irish mammies do.

When we were teenagers, all the girls would have a sleepover in the Drakes' sitting room and the next morning Jenny’s mam would cook us all a full Irish breakfast. I can still smell the Clonakilty black and white pudding.

You have an Irish mammy when your friends spend ten minutes chatting to your mother in the kitchen before you realize they are even in the house or when your best friend's boyfriend’s mother gets up at 1 am to make you all tea after your night on the town before placing a hot water bottle in your bed.

The click of the kettle as it boils, the softened muffle of the fridge door as it opens, the familiar voice and the warm smile is synonymous with an Irish mammy just going about her day.

And so I think this is one holiday that we should wholeheartedly embrace. Not just for wonderful Irish women and mothers but for females around the world.

#NollaigNamBan The most westerly celebration Inis Oirr, Aran Islands, Tae Trathnona in aice an tine mona, 2-6pm

— Mairead Sharry (@maireadsharry) January 5, 2016

At some stage today, take the time to appreciate those Irish women you have been lucky enough to encounter.

We may be getting married later and having fewer children these days, but the Irish blood running through our veins remains the same.

Do you celebrate Nollaig na mBan? Is it a good tradition and good craic that should be continued or does it undermine the strive for equality?

* Originally published in January 2012.

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