roots


St. Valentine’s Day tips from our a professional matchmaker

"What is the easiest way of finding someone?"


Finding love for Valentine's Day
Finding love for Valentine's Day
Photo by Google Images

Guinness PubFinder Ad

Every year I get asked the same question before Valentine’s Day, “What is the easiest way of finding someone so I can enjoy Valentine’s Day with someone?” 

You might think I would recommend my services at Maureen Tara Nelson Private Matchmaking as the only way to be successful, but I never do that. 

In fact, I suggest to all single people that you first start the dating process on your own, and I will also give some helpful suggestions on how to make it easier on yourself to be successful. 

I recommend giving yourself six months on your own.  If you take my advice, and you are lucky, you hopefully will find someone on your own.

__________________

READ MORE:

Irish are the least romantic nation in Europe says new survey

New Titanic tourist attraction will exceed expectations

Top ten modern Irish love songs for St. Valentine’s Day - VIDEOS
_______________

After six months of trying, if you are still single and are running into the same obstacles that most singles do during the dating process, then I suggest speeding up the process and making it much easier for yourself. Come in for your free consultation and see for yourself if we can help you. 

In my now 12 years of matchmaking, I have over 1,000 success stories of people just like yourself who are very happy they came in and let me do the work for them.  But again, first give yourself six months of trying to meet Mr./Ms. Right on your own.

Here are some helpful suggestions that will hopefully make it easier for you:

When you are ready for a committed relationship, let everyone you know you are ready and looking for someone who shares the same interests as you.

Make sure you are at a healthy and happy place in your life.  You need to love yourself first before someone else can love you.

Be sure you are portraying yourself in a positive light.  (No one likes someone who is negative.)

Stop looking for perfection.  No one is perfect, not even you.

Decide on the five most important attributes your partner must have.

(If someone doesn’t posses something which is number seven on your list let it go; you are being too picky.)

Always leave the house looking and feeling your best.  Confidence is a huge turn-on. 

Do not get disappointed if you are not successful in your own search for six months.  It truly is very difficult to find the right person for everyone. 

For a match to be “in heaven” you must have two characteristics. You need to be compatible with one another, and you need to have chemistry with each other.  


See more: Irish dating
Nster.com


3 Comments

See all comments

If I were single, my personal ad would say: "Overweight woman, well into middle-age"....But somehow I continue to meet really nice guys everywhere I go, who seem very interested in me, until I bring up my family (as I always do!). While food shopping, hanging out perusing books at the book store, visiting a museum, or going to a lecture, I meet the nicest single guys in the world (at first glance). I'm not saying they're marriage material, but my single women friends are flabbergasted that this happens when I suggest they also be kind, give a natural smile, or speak to strangers at the check-out counter. Beats the hell out of going into a bar! I guess I'll never know if these same fellows are axe-murderers or what have you - but I have no trouble meeting men, even though I'm not in "the market".
Sensible advice, but I thank God that any interest in romance is behind me. Too much work. Will work hard, but at something else.
I looked for perfection for so long ,I finally decided to date myself!
 




Log into IrishCentral with your Facebook account


or sign-in directly

E-Mail:
Password:
 Remember me Forgot my password
Not a member? Register Now!
print this article Print
email this articleE-mail