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An Irish American pastor in Boulder, Colorado has defended his decision not to allow a child of a lesbian couple to continue to attend Catholic school in his parish. The child is currently in pre-school there.

The Rev. Bill Breslin, pastor of Sacred Heart of Jesus Church in Boulder, posted his sermon to parishioners.

"The issue is not about our not accepting 'sinners,'" he said. "It is not about punishing the child for the sins of his or her parents. It is simply that the lesbian couple is saying that their relationship is a good one that should be accepted by everyone; and the Church cannot agree to that."

Gay and lesbian groups are attacking the decision

"The Archdiocese of Denver has acted very unjustly in singling out this child for exclusion," said Dignity USA Executive Director Marianne Duddy-Burke in a statement Monday.

"Until every student's parents are tested on Catholic teaching, this action by Catholic officials cannot be understood as anything other than discrimination on the back of a child. At a tender age, this child has learned that Catholic officials are willing to inflict pain on children and families."

However, the archdiocese of Denver is strongly defending its decision. “Parents living in open discord with Catholic teaching in areas of faith and morals unfortunately choose by their actions to disqualify their children from enrollment," it said in a statement posted on its website. "To allow children in these circumstances to continue in our school would be a cause of confusion for the student in that what they are being taught in school conflicts with what they experience in the home.”

Gay groups plan to protest

"These actions by the Denver Archdiocese harm the student by taking the child away from friends, teachers and community," said Jarrett Barrios, president of the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation. "It's deeply troubling to see any school remove a child from their educational program simply as the means of rejecting that child's parents."

But the archdiocese defended its decision.

About 30 opponents of the move protested Sunday outside the church during Mass.

"I was disappointed, but it was pretty much what I was expecting to hear," said Dave Ensign, board president of Boulder Pride, a Gay organization.

"When people hear about this, they speak up, and I think that says a lot about our community."

The child has not been identified publicly.
 



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For 2000 years hatred and intolerance have been the hallmark of the catholic church, why change now? This is nothing more than a pathetic attempt to distract from the growing sex abuse scandal now engulfing the church.
Just like the first Christians had to learn that one did not need to become a Jew in order to follow Jesus so too modern Christians must learn that one does not need to become heterosexual to follow Jesus. What else did Jesus say about same sex relations? Well he did tell the centurion whose dying boy he healed that he had not found as much faith in Israel. The soldiery were not allowed to bring along wives when on duty and so usually had a "boy" as valet and bed partner.
as for the word "bad" as the meaning was stated below. Goto http://www.catholicculture.org/commentary/otr.cfm?id=5168
I think : : that the school is taking it from a single issue stand point. the point of the agreement between the school and the legal guardians is to insure that what is being taught the child at school backs up what is taught at home. If the legal guardians teach the child that being gay is ok, and the school teaches that being gay is bad ,which it is( in the true meaning of the word "bad" ,meaning a manish women or a womanish man, from anglo saxons)''il post more on that later'' The child is being told two different things it forces a moral choice on to the child that he/she would have struggled with IF the school had kept the child in their teaching program..... The school is letting the child go to make his/her life easier (for good or bad, as the case may be)......... two mothers came before King Solomon , each had had a son, one of the two sons had died, the mother gave the child to the other woman to save the child's life. The school is giving up their teaching privileges to the lesbians to make the child's life easier
to: MurrayGirl hi obviously I am not a church expert. just want to clear that up rt now. All catholic schools have a form that the legal guardians ,of the children that attend said school, must sign. It states that the legal guardians must live in a Christian life stile. (now for all the people who would say that all the people are not perfect Christians) NO ONE IS. the legal guardians (in this case the lesbian couple)are simply not following the agreement they signed. that is one reason the child was taken out( thrown out, removed):whatever you want to call it: of the school
If the parents had been discrete and not flagged themselves as a gay family, it might be possible to let it go because it is not being highlighted. But evidently the two women raising the child want it to be a public issue and are not being respectful of the Catholic church's teaching. Why are they there? Why did they want their child in a situation where the teachings will highlight their life style? Just go elsewhere because those communities elsewhere may not have a moral issue with it! Is it fair for them to expect the church to change its moral position on family and homosexuality? Are they just trying to force it? They have no right to do that.
Can't understand where the Diocese of Denver is coming from - are there children of unmarried couples attending this school? If so, their "parents" are not abiding by the laws of the church either, so you have to believe that this child IS being punished for the "sins" of the parents. Are there non-catholic students in the school, as there are in the East? If the Diocese excluded all the "sinners" the Catholic schools would close.
This is from a man who wears a dress, mutters incantations to an invisible father figure and blames the worlds problems on a mythological creature who lives in the bowels of the earth. The catholic clergy suffers from hyper-cranial bowel obstruction.
The irony is that this is the NEW Catholic Church where virtually anything goes. Who goes to Confession anymore? When is the last time you heard a sermon about the devil? Vatican II Protestantized the Chuch. Why worry about a couple of lesbo parents? Everyone's going to Heaven. Just ask any Catholic priest.
Breslin is obviously a fool.
At this rate, the school should also require all parents to sign affidavits declaring that they didn't sleep together (or with anyone else) before they were married and that they never use birth control. The church is against those things as well, but they aren't pulling kids out of school over it. This is absolutely shameful.
TomSwinford (Mar 9, 05,52pm) writes “jacers, Holy Mary! what planet are you on? You think this is about rules?” Tom can be assured that I am very much on his planet, if not the same plane as his and others. Tom disappoints with his ranting attack on the whole of the Church following his question, an attack entirely unfair to the 97% of the Church members who do not engage in the horrible things his rant mentions and which we all are repulsed by. The debate under this article is not about a priest’s “act against (the) child” in question as Tom calls it but about the rightness or wrongness of his decision vis-a-vis her guardians’ way of living sexually and the way it might confuse the child given the Church’s teachings on genuine family life. It’s not about the child, though the priest’s decision is for the good of the child, God love her. His decision is about and was based on Church teaching, which as a priest of the Church he is obliged to make. Most posters below have taken this story as another opportunity to bash the Church. Now, there’s some real irony for you – using this story about an innocent child and her body-abusing guardians to abuse the goodness of the Church. And no mention of what that child might be raised up to be in the future, given their sexual orientation.
They try every trick in the book to have their way with us. Using a child as pawn and thus open to ridicule and the subsequent chaos that will ensue has the potential to cause identity confusion to all children in that type of an environment.
What a bunch of sanctimonious hypocrites to deny a child entry to their school for no other reason than to punish the parents and use a child to wield their hammer how disgusting.
I think the "church" has to wise up and start practicing comassion and not imposing heavy burdens on people and weighing them down. When I hear such goings on, I feel like finding a church based on Christ's teachings and not on man made laws...or prejudice I should say.
He must be Irish.!1! I lived through this narrow minded BS. for the first 33 years of my life. Why do you think I emigrated.
This only shows how archic the Catholic Church is. How about divorced people, this is also against their rigid doctrine, divorced and re-married is another example. This only enforces the bias this church is using to drag in more money by whipping up this frenzy against the LGBT.
Whatever your beliefs the child should certainly not be penalized. The archbishop should ask himself "what would Jesus do?" I'm just surprised that a lesbian couple would want their child educated by a religion that believes that they are sinners.
And how much money has the Denver Archdiocese had to pay out for pedophile priests?
What every poster said below is the truth. What is wrong with the Catholic Church today?? I am so disappointed in them. Reminds me of the time my mother walked over to our local church (in the 1950s) to ask if she could bring her children with her to the funeral of her brother-in-law (my uncle) in the Moravian Church. The local pastor said a resouding NO. My mother came home, dressed my sister and me in our best and took us to the funeral in the Moravian Church. Thanks, Mom, for that lesson in doing what is right, not what the church said you should do.
Gay people do have the right to privacy too. This school has placed that poor family in the firing line for every bigoted nut that wants to show how supposedly superior they are. I have to say few stories have enraged me as much as the casual bigotry and total arrogance displayed by the Catholic Church in this case. Shame on them.
I am assuming they also reject children of divorced and remarried without benefit of annulment couples, of cohabiting couples, of parents who commit fraud, are in prison convicted of crimes or who commit adultery - etc. These children are also presented with teaching that their parents are not following. In fact are there any perfect parents????
On reading this article the song "I've got the power" came to mind. If I was the parents I'd sue the self righteous ******* (multiple choice) for publicly exposing a private part of my life. He had no need to publicly sermon; a private conversation with the couple would have sufficed. Doesn't the self important idiot realise that the Church has enough sexual problems to handle at the moment. Ireland has exposed abuse and right now the Germans and Dutch are doing similar. They however are not going to sit around in commissions discussing everything. They are legally investigating and issuing international arrest warrants to bring to trial and imprison all found guilty. Their laws contain a non assistance clause therefore anyone found guilty of covering up will also serve a prison sentence. We unfortunately will soon discover that Ireland was not even the tip of an iceberg
It's just disgusting in this day and age to see children continually victimized by this awful church.
Thank you to Tom Swineford for stating so eloquently the way I feel about this scandalous act upon a child in pre-school. I hope the parents enroll their child in another pre-school and never again set foot in a Catholic church. Other forms of worship teach love and consideration for fellow men/women. This little child does not need to be exposed to the hatred and bigotry of the Catholic church.
I think the Church has become so twisted in its logic that they choose doing the wrong thing as proof of their sanctimonious beliefs. In Boulder they are depriving a child of a Catholic education merely because of the status of the parents. What if this same child needed emergency treatment at a Catholic hospital. Where is the Church going to draw the line? How ridiculous does the the choice have to be before they realize thier narrow mindedness?
Doesn't the Catholic Church have enough problems of it's own creation? Seems silly to continue to alienate more people. Shame on these idiots for persecuting an innocent child. Though to be honest, this child and her mothers would probably be better off leaving the Catholic Church which is rife with scandal and dishonor.
If they also refuse to take children of divorced/remarried or cohabiting heterosexual couples, I have no problem with it.
I wonder is children of divorced parents are permitted to attend the school?
Or another alternative 'Sungold' would be to become a closet Don't ask Don't tell catholic and be as vocal as you like about your sexual orientation, The church of Rome has more pedophiles and Homosexuals that it should be a mandatory requirement for membership, So why are they getting so uppity??


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