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Cork farmer drowns daughter and commits suicide over marriage break down with American wife

Rural community in shock as Dad drowns his three-year-old in shallow waters, then himself


Rebecca McCarthy (L) Audley Cove (R)
Rebecca McCarthy (L) Audley Cove (R)
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An Irish farmer drowned his three-year-old daughter before killing himself over fears his American wife would bring the child to live in the United States. Martin McCarthy (50), a farmer, had been treated for depression and a heart condition and was deeply upset  as his marriage to Rebecca (26), from California was breaking down.

His wife arrived home to their isolated farmhouse in Ballydehob, West Cork to find a suicide note and alerted police. The note was described as long and rambling.

A huge search operation was soon underway both of the isolated farm and the nearby ocean. Sadly, the  bodies of little Clarissa and her dad were discovered in shallow water a few hundred yards from the family farm.

Rebecca witnessed the findings of the bodies and the desperate attempt first to resuscitate the little girl and then the father.

Rebecca McCarthy came originally from Los Angeles and found work as a nanny in Ireland and wanted to move back home to California. Her family were on their way from LA last night to comfort her.

The couple married seven years ago but according to the Irish Sun their relationship was falling apart. “Rebecca was planning to move home to America – they had effectively separated. Martin was very upset and I suppose it all came to a head last night.”

“It is a horrific tragedy – Clarissa was the apple of Martin’s eye,” said a local source.

A post-mortem conducted last night confirmed that the doting dad drowned himself and his daughter over fears that his wife was planning to leave him.

A close friend, Leslie Swanton, said: “I am just in total shock. I knew Martin for 30 odd years.

“He was a very loving father and his daughter was his world. He was completely devoted to her.”

He had last met him on Monday evening: “He was his usual self. I can’t imagine what was going through his head. I just don’t know what happened.”

According to the Mirror, Rebecca McCarthy raised the alarm after she came home to an empty house and found the note.

Police and coastguard rushed to the scene and commenced a sea and ground search in total darkness.

The coast guard found little Clarissa first and then continued searching the dark water off the beach.

Emergency services tried for more than an hour to revive the little girl but their brave efforts could not bring her back.

At approximately 2.30 am the body of her father Martin was found in shallow water and he too was pulled from the water.

He was pronounced dead by a doctor who was at the scene helping rescuers.

Local sources told the paper that Rebecca, 26, was originally from California and met Martin when she came on vacation to West Cork. She was working as an au-pair for a local vet.

They were married seven years ago.

One local man said: “Martin worked seven days a week. He owned a large farm and also rented a number of acres around the area.


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“He was a very loving father and his daughter was his world. He was completely devoted to her.” So DEVOTED and loving that he MURDERED her.
Yes the mother was young but she saw green fields and money in them, she should not have married him, he it seems thought it good to have a family at last, and loved his child so much yet was threatend the child would be taken from him, this could make any parent with so much love become ill will worry. I feel sorry for the mother but also for what must have been going through that poor mans head, RIP both father and child. The man was ill, and I can sypathise with that.
He committed murder. No sympathy for this man. He murdered an innocent child,his own child.
Sorry, that should have read clairvoyant shrinks
Was`nt aware so many shrinks posted on the site.
Farmer obviously without the faith. Murder, suicide = hell but people with no faith don't care. They will when they get there.
I agree with, for one, Mike7571. Sad, sad. Pray.
This is the same story as Medea - he hated his wife more than he loved his child. So selfish of him: I will kill the child rather than lose her. This marriage does seem a bit sad to begin with: she married him when she was 19 and he was 43? And they were married for 4 years before they had the child. Why assume that you would never see the child again - it was written that he "feared" the child would go to the U.S., had it been decided by the Court? At this stage in his life, I am sure that he could turn the running of his farm over to a trusted caretaker and go visit for good stretches. Doesn't sound like he was a poor man, not with all of that property that it sounded like he rented out to others. Trouble is it seems as though he was mentally ill and all of that isolation probably contributed to it. A very wise spiritual counselor once told me that when you commit suicide, the mental state that you are in stays with you for eternity, there is never any peace. Sounds like the perfect definition of Hell to me - self-imposed. There is no Heaven at the end of this double-murder for him.
What a sad story. This man was truely sick, the whole family needs our prayers.
The farmer worked 15/16 hour days where is the time for cultural difference.No excuse.He left a note with the heading gone to heaven.Problem here is the Catholics believing heaven as an alternative and suicide as the transport.Its a fact because i live in Ireland and people who commit suicide believe in Heaven .FOR THAT REASON I AM AN ATHEIST and proud.I live in Ireland with my wife from New Jersey,i have a beautiful boy and i spend time with my family.There is no cultural difference,if anything that's the main attraction,but i don't work 16 hour days 7 days a week
Today's demand for a survival to be someone is such that many have to specialize in some way, some on a daily grind, the possibility is this Man devoted himself on a work load that gave little or no chance of becoming anything other than a sort of modern day slave, this would contribute to becoming depressed and eventually produce a mindset that eventually would produce this outcome, it is difficult to comprehend the workings of the mind from a exterior point of view, in particular if you are comfortable and well grounded in the culture you exist in.
Murdering his daughter so her Mom couldn't have her, was a very angry selfish act.
STEVENSTAR - No. You are the UNlucky one.
@@@@Smyrnian | Mar 07, 2013, 01:45 PM EST::::WELL ARENT U THE LUCKY ONE THEN!!!
Let us not judge,lest we also be judged.R.I.P




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