One of my favorite things about my Australian boyfriend is how well traveled he is. He has been almost everywhere, and has a genuine interest in traveling to and learning about other countries and cultures.
When we first met two years ago in Cornell University, I was really impressed with his world knowledge and travel resume.
There was one problem though. He had never been to Ireland. He never wanted to go. He never considered going. He never heard from anyone that he ought to go.
Had he not met me, he would probably have lived a long, well-traveled life without visiting Ireland, or knowing much about it.
I was offended at the beginning. Then I grilled him. As it turned out, his parents hated Ireland. They went on a trip there in the 1970’s and had an awful experience – they were pick-pocketed by poor Dublin kids on O’Connell Street, they stayed in B&B’s without heating, they couldn’t bear the rain, the variety of food consisting mostly of potatoes, and so on.
Ouch. That hurt.
Because I know that Ireland is a totally different country now, and that people who never came back to see the changes for themselves will forever brand the country.
Stuck with this chip on my shoulder and the fact that he was coming to see me in Ireland after the summer semester, I decided to dispel these mad ideas he inherited from his parents and show him what a fabulous little island I come from.
It took a lot of planning, saving and help from my parents, but I organized a super trip for us.
As I am from Drogheda, and Max is a history buff, I took him to Newgrange. It was disappointing to know that he had never heard of it before.
People think Stonehenge when they hear ‘prehistoric monument’, but Newgrange is much better and older! It predates the Egyptian Pyramids by about 500 years. And so begins my very impressed and surprised boyfriend taking in Ireland’s glory.
Dublin is obviously a must see, and the mix of old and new is unlike anywhere in the world. Living among the old historic Georgian buildings soaked in history and culture is a diverse, cosmopolitan and worldly crowd.
Who would have thought that sushi was as easy to get as a pint of Guinness in Dublin? The injection of wealth and sophistication to Ireland is most apparent in Dublin, but despite this, it still retains class.
They say there is a difference between being wealthy and being classy, and Dublin shows the world how to balance that. I think Max got a surprise when we hit Dublin.
We ate in awesome restaurants, one French and one Thai. They had French and Thai staff, and the food was as authentic as possible. A city can become very generic if it shows off its array of international food and forgets about its own.
So as to showcase Ireland’s sophisticated palate, I took him to the café upstairs in Avoca Handweavers on Suffolk Street. Avoca is Irish food at its best.
It combines the freshest Irish produce with healthy and tasty ideas. Nights out in Dublin with my friends were memorable, and the craic was comparable to none.
Dublin’s nightlife is famous for a reason, and I was happy to prove to my boyfriend that Irish people are not alcoholics who get into fights, rather that we know how to have fun just like everyone else. Okay, maybe more.
Call me biased, but I do believe the ‘real’ Ireland, and the best of Ireland is in Galway.
I spent three years there in University and I miss it dearly. It is Ireland at it’s finest, with the best of scenery, pubs, theater, music, and shopping, all packed into a neat little accessible city.
The cobblestones and the talented buskers on Shop Street have been there forever, and that won’t change, recession or boom. The newly renovated Eyre Square is modern yet discreet, and the façade of the buildings around the square are clean but old. I know Galway city from top to bottom, but it never ceases to impress me.
The city is more like a town, and having the stunning University campus in the heart of the city ensures that creativity and energy flow in the air. One in every five people on the street is a student, and this is what makes the city the liveliest and most exciting city in Ireland.
The narrow streets are filled with pubs and restaurants, and lead down to the Claddagh. We all know about the Claddagh rings, but we don’t all know where their inspiration came from.
The Claddagh is where the Corrib River meets Galway Bay. It’s truly stunning, with swans on the water, and on a nice day (a dry day) people will have picnics around the water. It’s one of the oldest former fishing villages in Ireland, and the Spanish Arch across the water, where the fish markets were once held, is rather romantic.
We walked along the ocean road to the ‘prom’ – the Promenade leading out of the city towards Salthill, where jogging housewives, strolling lovers, and elderly people sitting on benches are to be seen. Walking along the mile of pavement that is the ‘prom’, with the ocean splashing against the massive rocks, the spray of the Atlantic on your face, and the freshness of the air, is a feel good moment if ever there was one.
As for the apartments in Salthill overlooking the prom….If they’re good enough for Martin Sheen (who lived there while attending NUI, Galway) they’re good enough for anyone! The restaurants in Galway are the best – McDonagh’s fish and chips are world famous and rightly so. The trendy G Hotel’s steak is a winner, but nothing beats The Pullman Inn. A restaurant in a train. Yes, a restaurant in a train.
The train is the old Orient Express. Gold and mahogany are two words that spring to mind, but do it no justice. The restaurant is located at the breathtaking Glenlo Abbey Hotel, a five star castle hotel, located on sprawling immaculate golf course. The food is as unique and perfect as the location.
This is an experience I will remember forever, and is not to be missed by anyone who visits Ireland. We said goodbye to Galway City and headed out for the Wild West – the rugged, barren, bleak but beautiful landscape Yeats once referred to as a ‘terrible beauty’.
After about an hour’s drive outside of Galway City, and after passing through adorable little villages where Gaelic is spoken in an everyday manner, the intimidating grey mountains and the lonely roads start to invoke shivers down the spine. It is spooky, but in a really attractive way. The rain adds to the atmosphere, and Max really enjoyed driving on the winding roads around the mountains and past sheep.
Every so often, small houses are sparsely spotted, with smoke coming out of the chimneys. It would be easy to imagine an old farmer living in them, making his dinner every evening (meat, potatoes, cabbage and carrots), and listening to the news on the radio with a glass of Whiskey by the fire.
This is another aspect of Ireland that is unchanged, although harder to find. We finally reached our destination, Renvyle in Connemara, on the Western edge of Ireland, overlooking the Atlantic. It is just like scenes from “The Quiet Man” – in fact, we passed the Quiet Man Bridge, where the movie was filmed. Our hotel is a little past its prime, but quaint and charming nonetheless, just like Connemara itself. The staff were warm and welcoming, and the views breathtaking. On one side of the hotel was the Atlantic Ocean – raw and unpredictable. On the other were mountains, valleys, flowers, and lakes, all calm and peaceful.
We had an amazing time, eating, drinking, and relaxing for a few days. We visited Kylemore Abbey, which is eerie and stunning all at once. Little gems like these are never well known, but never fail to impress.
We visited Clifton, where we had succulent garlic buttered crab claws in Mitchell’s Restaurant, probably one of the best meals I’ve ever had in my life. I wondered if Mitchell’s were in New York or Sydney would it get more recognition than it does… But that’s why it is what it is. The same goes for many other hidden Irish gems, be they restaurants, historical sites or views that should be on postcards. They are tucked away, and discovered only by word of mouth or passers-by. They are completely modest and seek only the approval and rating of those that matter.
Max was ultimately impressed by the parts of Ireland he got to see, and he looks forward to our next trip, when I plan to show him around Kerry and Cork. Having been away from Ireland for so long, I had forgotten how beautiful it is, and the funny thing is that the more I travel the more I believe this. Ireland never fails to impress or surprise, but it’s best done if you ditch the travel book and discover it yourself.
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Switch to the desktop site to post a comment.kickstar | Jan 21, 2010, 12:00 AM EST
I know for a fact there are a lot of Australians who hate Ireland and the Irish and my Question is Why??.
cormacmac | Jan 20, 2010, 09:23 PM EST
Well written Amy. I've been praising Galway as the fillet of Ireland in this space for many years now. A nice piece. Cormac.
JustineCase | Jan 20, 2010, 08:27 PM EST
NOW YOU'VE DONE IT ,,Made me so Homesick for Ireland ,,, very well written i wished it was a book so i could continue reading ,,,WELL WELL DONE AMY
ColleenUSA | Jan 20, 2010, 04:51 PM EST
That's a lovely story Aliciarose
Aliciarose | Jan 20, 2010, 04:20 PM EST
I first went to Ireland in 1981 when the troubles were high and the Hunger Strikers were on. I was in the north and south and even at that time I loved it, being of Irish descent myself. I went to meet my Penfriend who is now my husband. Have been back many times and still think it is the most beautiful place on earth.
jfmmac10 | Jan 20, 2010, 04:06 PM EST
I agree my favorite part of Ireland, cannot wait to go back this summer
traveler51 | Jan 20, 2010, 03:32 PM EST
Great article with all the personal input. I have almost finished researching my Irish background so I can go to the areas my great-grandparents came from. This article really makes me want to finish so I can go to Ireland.
shenanigans | Jan 20, 2010, 03:19 PM EST
Boy-o-boy! This article has made me really home sick. There is no place like home, there's no place like Ireland.
jacersisityourself | Jan 20, 2010, 03:04 PM EST
Living in Ireland and knowing many of its tourist attractions well, I am really impressed with this fantastic article by Amy Feran. It is so ‘right on the button', though whiners might say she’s dropping a few names (restaurants, hotels etc). I liked the writing style and language – loved that bit “... an hour outside Galway... the intimidating grey mountains and the lonely roads start to invoke shivers down the spine. It is spooky, but in a really attractive way. The rain adds to the atmosphere...” - This is precisely what I’ve felt passing through the remote parts of Connemara, where, yes, you suddenly feel no longer alone or afraid again when you know someone’s at home by the smoke from a chimney in an isolated house. Great article, great writing.
jacersisityourself | Jan 20, 2010, 03:02 PM EST
beachline must surely recognise that Rebelforce’s comment was directed towards another article on I/Central. It might explain why some of my comments never appeared under the ones intended for!
irish141 | Jan 20, 2010, 02:41 PM EST
Thanks McNamara31. You made me cry!
McNamara31 | Jan 20, 2010, 12:43 PM EST
Great story irish141 ...My mom's gone too, and some of the most wonderful memories,were with her,in Ireland. My grandmother(a Connors) was from a small town called Cahermore, Galway and her own mom died having her. Besides the beauty of Ireland, one of the greatest blessings is the love of an Irish mother. All of us who had it, knows it's Ireland's greatest export.
irish141 | Jan 20, 2010, 11:48 AM EST
I went to Galway in 1968 with my Ma six months after my father had died. Both of my parents were born in Galway. My mom had not been back in 43 years. I met my 52 first cousins for the first time. I danced in tents with my cousins and uncles. My second cousin fell in love with me and sent me admirer love letters in Ireland and New York. My mom asked me, now wouldn't you like to marry an irishman? I replied, turning 16 over there and having my first irish coffee, I would ma, but I can't understand them. My ma of course laughted as it was her way. I was asked upon my return to Queens, New York, what I thought of Ireland and I replied, well you know those pop up books that you read, it's like that. You really can't believe how breathtaking it is until your standing there. When I stayed at my Aunt Julia's home in Galway, you had to go outside to the outhouse to go to the bathroom and I remember looking up and feeling I felt I could actually touch the stars. One more thing, I was bicycling with my ma and she said watch out for the nettles. Sure enough I fell into them and was itching myself like crazy and my ma almost peed herself, as she was laughing so hard. It's funny I didn't want to go because I was turning 16. I thank God and my Ma (who is gone to heaven 35 years ago) that I went to Galway and Dublin. I have a heart shaped ruby ring (my birthstone) from my ma for my 16th birthday. I use to have a bumper sticker that read "THANK GOD I'M IRISH" and I wish I could find another one. GOD BLESS MY FAMILY AND ALL THE IRISH!
LouGuyt | Jan 20, 2010, 11:11 AM EST
My husband and I visited Ireland in the 70s, and we found it so charming. We stayed in motels and hotels which were excellent. We also found the food excellent, except for the beef. We just didn't eat beef. He hadn't wanted to go to Ireland, but he really enjoyed. It was because of ireland's two most valuable assets: the views and the people. I've been there twice since then. It is now more modern and bustling, but it has also lost something in the process.
Bridgetftmyers | Jan 20, 2010, 11:01 AM EST
Galway is the best place on earth !!!!!! My home town ,going home for good soon .
ColleenUSA | Jan 20, 2010, 10:26 AM EST
This is lovely. You really showed him how wrong his parent were!
beachline | Jan 20, 2010, 09:39 AM EST
Hey Rebelforce, your rambling tirade has nothing to do with this lovely letter about travel in Ireland.
beachline | Jan 20, 2010, 09:37 AM EST
Thanks for the beautiful tour of Ireland.. You are correct, Galway is one of the best places in Ireland. It is one of my favorites. Many trips back to Ireland and I still have not seen all of the out of the way places that make Ireland the special place it really is. My first trip in 1951 left me with a burning desire to return to my ancestral home, but, life interferred and it was not until 1975 that I was able to go back to Ireland. Dramatic changes to say the least!
Rebelforce | Jan 20, 2010, 09:22 AM EST
Catholic League president Bill Donohue responds to what Massachusetts senatorial hopeful Martha Coakley said last night in a WBSM interview: When Martha Coakley, a Roman Catholic, was asked whether she supports conscience rights for health care employees, she offered a resounding “NO.” So completely wedded to the extremists in the pro-abortion community, Coakley would not allow Catholic doctors and nurses—who unlike her accept the teachings of Catholicism—to recuse themselves from participating in procedures they find morally repugnant. Coakley said that if she were asked to consider a bill that would say “if people believe that they don’t want to provide services that are required under the law and under Roe v. Wade, that they can individually decide to not follow the law. The answer is no.” When asked by host Ken Pittman about the rights of Catholics who follow the teachings of the Catholic Church, Coakley offered the separation of church and state mantra. Pittman then said, “In the emergency room you still have your religious freedom.” Coakley conceded that point but hastened to add, “you probably shouldn’t work in the emergency room.” Translated: You really don’t have a right to exercise your religious-liberty objections. This is the opinion of the attorney general, the chief law enforcement agent in the state of Massachusetts. She effectively told practicing Catholics who work in the health care industry that they ought to get another job. As far as she is concerned, those who invoke a right to conscientious objection—a staple of religious liberty—should lose. President Obama says he supports conscience rights for health care workers. The Catholic bishops support conscience rights. Survey after survey show that the American people support conscience rights. But Martha Coakley does not—she says they’re all wrong. Glad to know which side of religious liberty she is on.
vincentruane | Jan 20, 2010, 09:00 AM EST
It seems like you should be working for the Irish Tourist board or you could write a best seller on traveling in Ireland or other countries. However if you really want to impress this Aussie further you should bring him to an All Ireland Hurling Final and All Ireland Football Final as well.