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The women are lining up for me!

Posted on Friday, August 20, 2010 at 01:44 PM

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As they say it’s either feast or famine. As I’ve shared with you lately I’ve been cautiously dating a lovely woman and things have been going pretty well. So can you imagine my surprise when I’m asked by my best friend’s wife to go on a date with her sister.
You should see this woman. She is five years my junior, never married- a real stunner in looks and works out at the gym a lot! A real career woman too who I’ve always secretly fancied to be honest.
I was over the moon when Betty, my friend’s wife, told me her sister was interested.
Sadly I had to refuse (for now anyway) because my current relationship is going well and I don’t want to mess her around.
But isn’t it just typical. My question is am I better off knowing that Betty’s sister is interested or not knowing at all?
She is in my thoughts more than she should be so if I wasn’t made aware of it maybe I’d be more committed to my current relationship.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m very happy at the moment and life couldn’t be better just that “don’t lead me into temptation” issue is rearing its ugly head.
Anyway thought I’d share with you guys how popular I’ve become!
Getting divorced was the best thing that ever happened.
I’ll keep you updated!


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Well Joseph, as I was reading this my first thought was, why was this women never married before ? - BEWARE Joseph she could be a career dater and user. And in some ways I felt somewhat sympathectic to your dilemma of "maybe the grass is greener on the other side". But that all changed when I saw your statement "Getting divorced was the best thing that ever happened". I do not know the reason or circumstances of your divorce nor do I wish to know. All I can conclude is that a person who has the privilege of having an advice column and uses it for his personal gains and does not respect his ex-wifes feelings, must be a pretty thoughtless and selfish guy. You go for the career woman - may she chew you up and spit you out - you deserve it. And no I am not a bitter divorcee - I am a happly married person for 25 years.
If you have not expressed with the current woman that your relationship is mutually exclusive, then you should date who you want. You've just divorced, why tie yourself to only one person right now. While I appreciate that fact your respecting the current woman's feelings, dating is all about the freedom to find who YOU want to be with. She is now aware of the other offer. Good Luck!!
Good for you for refusing the offer of the date, but in a way, You are already cheating on your girl. Either put the second girl completely out of your mind or break up with the first girl. You can't have both. It's not fair to either woman.
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