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Coach Brian Kelly

Notre Dame’s Brian Kelly talks Irish roots, pride, adversity

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Coach Brian Kelly

It is a mid-October Sunday morning at Notre Dame, right after the home victory against Pittsburgh. It was a close-run thing and the sense of relief around the Notre Dame campus is palpable. Nowhere is it more obvious than in Coach Brian Kelly’s headquarters at the Guglielmino complex.

It is easy to see what pressure a Notre Dame rookie coach is under just when you wander into the center. Framed under glass is the 1988Waterford Crystal National Championship trophy. They built a statue toLou Holtz near the football stadium for delivering that.

As against that, some of his successors were essentially run out of town for not delivering. This Notre Dame fan base is a tough, impatient crowd and it is easy to see why.

On the walls at the Guglielmino complex are Hall of Famers from Knute Rockne to Joe Montana; all around are artifacts of the most glorious era in college sport when Notre Dame were kings and champions. Not any more, which is where Brian Kelly comes in. Hugely successful at Valley State, Central Michigan and Cincinnati, he has been brought in to wake up the echoes and restore the glory days.

Like any restoration, uneasy lies the head that wears the crown, yet Kelly seems remarkably unfazed by the pressure. As the new head coach he bears the dreams of millions across America for the glory days to be restored.

Yet on his wall in his spacious office there are no homages to the past. The main artifact to catch the eye is a painting, a striking
modernist rendition of ten or twelve faceless workingmen ready to go to work.

This is how Kelly sees his new job, as a member of a team, where no individual is more important than the other, where the blue-collar
pail-and-bucket mentality rules and where progress is not measured in headline inches but in yards and inches for the next first down.

In the days following our interview, Notre Dame was rocked to its core when a student, Declan Sullivan, was killed filming football practice when the video tower he was on collapsed.

Kelly, who said that dealing with the death was especially painful because he had gotten to know the 20-year-old personally, was among
the many mourners who traveled from Notre Dame to the Chicago suburb of Buffalo Grove for the funeral. Notre Dame’s vice president for student affairs, the Rev. Tom Doyle, delivered the homily. The service was closed to reporters but AP reported that Doyle asked attendees “to let go of the things that give you pain and ascend to a stream that will give you joy.” Sullivan was also remembered in the game againstTulsa, when both Notre Dame and Tulsa players wore helmet decals in the shape of a shamrock with the initials DS in the middle. Notre Dame also wore the decal against Utah.

Kelly knows what adversity is like. His wife Paqui has battled breast cancer and has undergone a double mastectomy. It is a battle she and he are committed to winning, not just for their three kids, but also for American women everywhere. They have established a foundation to raise millions for the cause. So Brian Kelly knows it is about far more than X’s and O’s and where the next spread formation comes from.

But he’s also a college coach in the best or worst job in the nation. The will to win and desire are evident. He will tolerate nothing less.
Born in Chelsea, Massachusetts, Kelly was a linebacker at Assumption College, where he graduated with a degree in political science in
1983. His father Paul was a politician – a Boston alderman – and Kelly could have followed in his father’s footsteps, but football was his
true passion and after a run at working in Democratic party politics, he was back at Assumption as a linebacker coach and defense
coordinator.

In the following years, at Valley State (1991-2003), Central Michigan University (2004-06), and University of Cincinnati (2006-09), Kelly
developed a reputation for building winning teams. We began our conversation by talking about the win over Pittsburgh the day before.
Despite the victory, Kelly is quick to say that the team is a work in progress.

Coach Kelly: We are in it for the long haul. We are in it to build it
and sustain it for many years. So these are just short steps along the
way. I knew when I got into this business – that when
18-to-21-year-olds were going to decide whether I could pay my
mortgage – I already knew I was crazy. So from there it makes it
easier, as long as you start with that perspective. The big picture is
that you’re developing a program, and when you’re building a
successful business or organization, you don’t measure it by what
happens at the end of the month, you measure it by where you’re moving
to over the long term, and that’s really the perspective that I have.

Niall O’Dowd: An Irish coach and Notre Dame is a pretty
good mix. What’s the heritage – how far back do you go?

KELLY: My great-grandparents were from Ireland. My grandfather was a Boston
cop for 35 years, and my first introduction to Irish culture was
talking to him about the where the term Paddy Wagon came from. We
lived in Chelsea, Massachusetts, which was a naval pier town where all
the Navy guys would come in and they’d have some beers and then the
police would be called in to round them up. They [the police] drove an
open-air police truck and it was so cold at night that the guys who
drove it had to have a little Irish Paddy [whiskey] to stay warm and
that’s why they called it the Paddy Wagon. Whether it’s true or not, I
have no idea. But it’s a good story, and that’s why I tell it.
We have a family name that has an Irish story to it as well. My
youngest son is Kenzel Kelly, and we got that from my
great-grandparents. When they came over from Ireland and they were
traveling through downtown New York as the Passion Play [depicting the
passion of Jesus Christ: his trial, suffering and death] was being put
on. It was directed by a Father Kenzel and they liked that name. So my
grandfather was [christened] Kenzel and my dad is Paul Kenzel and the
last chance at keeping a Kenzel in the family was when my youngest boy
was born; my dad bribed my wife, who wasn’t a big Kenzel fan, and
said, listen, if you go with Kenzel and keep the name alive, you get
the house on the Cape. So the name Kenzel is still alive.

O'DOWD: Tell me about your dad.

KELLY: Dad comes to all the games. He’s a bit of a celebrity. He’s on TV all
the time. He’s a Notre Dame [fan] – it was all Notre Dame [growing
up].

He was a big influence. I think you are who you are based upon your
life experience. He grew up as an Irish Catholic in Boston, going to
church and being part of the community, and all the things that he was
taught growing up were passed on to me and now to my family and that
was that the church was important, community service was important,
and we all played sports and were involved in athletics.

O'DOWD: And like your dad, I know
you went to work for the Democratic Party. That’s an interesting departure for
a college coach…

KELLY: Well, it didn’t start that way. Actually, when I graduated college I
went to work in the State House of Boston and worked for a state
senator. Gary Hart was running for president and the state senator
that I worked for in Massachusetts endorsed Gary Hart. So he lent me
to his campaign. After that campaign ended, I wanted to go back to the
thing that I wanted to do all along, which was coach. I probably
wasn’t courageous enough to say it at the time [I graduated], which
was “[I’m sorry] that you used all this money to send me to school and
I want to be a football coach.” Didn’t seem like the right thing to do
at the time. So I went into politics for a couple of years, I enjoyed
it, it was a great experience but it wasn’t what I was passionate
about.

O'DOWD: What did you learn from that time?

KELLY: I would probably say relationship building, how important it is,
trust, and also knowing how to work with the media. I was working with
the media on a day-to-day basis. So I think it helped me at an early
age to work with the media and reach out as best we could to build
good relationships.

O'DOWD: So when you started coaching, what were your initial plans?

KELLY: Just to be good at what I was doing, more than anything else. I
thought I had a lot to give and the ability to communicate the game
and teach it.

O'DOWD: Where did that come from?

KELLY: I think it was being in the back yard playing basketball with my
brother, or going out in the street playing stickball. I think just
competing. Today, everything is all planned for kids. When I played,
it was just – let’s go play. And you played because you loved to play.
You didn’t play for any other reason. Everything is so planned now.
Sometimes, I think today, we’ve got kids just playing to play.
So I had that inside, that I was passionate about playing and loved
the game and felt like if you’re passionate about something you should
be able to teach it. 

O'DOWD: Who were your football heroes?

KELLY: I loved watching Joe Montana when I was an Irish fan growing up. I’ve
never been enamored with just one person. The great ones have always
caught my attention.

O"DOWD: So when you’re coaching Notre Dame obviously it is an incredible responsibility. It is like no other job, is it?

KELLY: Well, I think if I thought about that every day I’d jump out the
window. So I try to think about the process. Like I said earlier when
we began the conversation about winning and losing. Obviously winning
is much better than losing, but it’s a process. I focus more on the
process of developing a program than on all the things that could make
this overwhelming. That’s how I operate on a day-to-day basis. I’m
confident in the plan and that the people that I have around me will
accomplish those goals, and sometimes those goals take some time to
reach.

O"DOWD: Anything surprise you so far?

KELLY: I think anytime you take over a new business or a new organization
you go in there and you try to find out where the air’s coming out of
the tires, so to speak. We’ve got a good idea of where it was and
we’ve been able to address that. I was pretty well-schooled on the
fact that there was going to be a lot outside of the game itself –
whether it be the media or alumni or development, whether it be
Thursday night shows, Friday luncheons, Saturday walk to the basilica,
there’s so many things. I was prepared for that.

I think the surprising thing, more than anything else, was the players
and some of the things that they were missing just in the game itself,
and so that was a bit of a surprise. But nothing surprises me too
much. That’s the Irish in me. I’ve always been this way.

O"DOWD: What did your wife say when you came home and said ‘I’m going to Notre Dame?’

KELLY: She did give me a blank look, like, ‘are you sure?’ My daughter, Grace
Kelly, said, “Dad, I know it’s your dream job, but I’m crying now
because I’m sad for me, because I’m going to miss my friends. I’m
happy for you, I’m just sad because I’m moving again for the fourth
time in six years.”

I think that’s how the whole family felt. Now that they’re here and
they’re settled and they’re around Notre Dame and I can share the
things that Notre Dame has with them, it makes it all worthwhile.

O'DOWD: How do you cope with the stress?

KELLY: There’s a lot of stress. I’ve worked hard to take care of myself and
getting fit and getting check-ups and all those things because I
worked 20 years to get here, I don’t want to have a heart attack while
I’m here, you know? I think that’s absolutely a concern and I’m taking
it seriously.

O'DOWD: Do you get time off at all?

KELLY: No. This is my time off [doing the interview with Irish America]. You
guys get to spend it with me. How lucky are you? No, you get a couple
hours here and there. I’ll have dinner with the family tonight – you
just pick your spots and when you get a couple of hours, make it
quality time.

O'DOWD:The painting hanging on your wall with the faceless workers is very striking.

KELLY: You can see they’re Irish…I look at that [and I see] the Irish
immigrants who came over and lost their lives and dug the canals. When
I first saw it I said, “I’ve got to have that picture.” It also is
about where we want to bring our football team – back to its Fighting
Irish roots. Back to faceless and nameless. It’s not about superstars
but about a team, about trust and commitment and all the things I was
taught growing up from my family, from my Irish Catholic roots, and
we’re trying to bring Notre Dame back to that, and that’s kind of the
full circle here.

That’s the job and the process. When you’ve been in it and it’s
ingrained in you and you know where you want to
go with it, you don’t get derailed too easily.

O'DOWD: You seem very strong in yourself; you’re not worried what people think.

KELLY: There’s going to be plenty of opinions. There’s never a shortage of
opinions in this business. That’s the great thing about Notre Dame. As
long as you understand that, and this is where my background helps me,
when I was at University of Cincinnati, nobody cared enough. Here
people care too much. It allows me to keep perspective on it, as well,
and I know what we want to do. I know what our plan is, and they’ll
all be on the bandwagon sooner or later, so I just always reserve room
for them.

O'DOWD: Anything else surprise you here?

KELLY: There are some things at Notre Dame you have to get used to and one of
them is TV time-outs. We have to pay the bills, so to speak. It’s hard
to keep flow and momentum. It is choppy and I’m working through that
right now. I think I’d like to get our players to see their head coach
is involved in the game and he’s not just walking up and down the
sidelines but he’s invested in it. The coaches that I played for were
like that and I enjoyed that.

Now, there’s this line that you can’t cross, but I’ve always felt that
that’s the way I’ve played the game and that’s the way I’m going to
coach the game.

O'DOWD:How do you feel about the game in Ireland – Notre Dame against Navy in 2012?

KELLY:  I can’t wait. I’m so excited. Just can’t tell you how, for me, to go
to Ireland to take an American football team to Ireland, how special
that’s going to be.

Three years ago, I spent two weeks up and down the West Coast. We
golfed, enjoyed all the great courses and all the lively conversation
in the pubs. It’s always good to go into a pub and start a
conversation about politics. You’re either going to get somebody to
buy you one or you’re going to have to leave. [Laughs].

O'DOWD: What was it like to go back to Boston – against Boston College?
KELLY: For me, we just needed to win the game. My family loved it. They had
100 people tailgating. Cousins, aunts, uncles, cousins I didn’t know,
wanted tickets too. Everybody was my cousin that weekend. I know they
had a heck of a time and really enjoyed it, but I’ve been back there
twice to play.

When I was at Grand Valley State we went and played Bentley College
which is just outside of Boston and beat ’em pretty good, and then
came back and beat BC, so I’m doing pretty good in Boston right now.

O'DOWD: So what’s your secret to creating a winning team?

KELLY: I think winning starts with you – [but] you all have to be in it.
It’s a team game first of all and it’s not just a bunch of
individuals. Those that win at the highest level win as a team, and
once you’re able to develop that structure of a team where people care
about each other you can then go to work on all the other principles.
Until you have a team that cares about each other you have no chance
of winning. When we got here, this was not a team. This was a
collection of individuals that played at Notre Dame, and that’s what
we’re changing and it’s coming together pretty good.

O'DOWD: You seem deeply aware of the Notre Dame history and its mystique.

KELLY: Yes. As a football program, we’re getting back to our traditional
roots. It should be fun. We’re going to unveil the green jerseys for
that game too, (against Army in New York on November 20th) the green
is recognizable in certain parts of the country. Green does not work
very well here, but in New York green is a good thing. We’re going to
be using that helmet right there with a shamrock on it, next year when
we play the University of Michigan. We’re going to be using throwback
uniforms. We’re going to play the first ever night game at the
University of Michigan.

It goes deep. I didn’t know all the history until I read about four of
the books, and learned a lot about Notre Dame and how Notre Dame was
perceived. It is an incredible history and imparts a great sense of
mission. It is just great to be here.

O'DOWD: Thank you, Coach Kelly.

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