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Tying the knot - the pros and cons of marrying an Irishman

Dating an Irishman is one thing but read on to see what happens after you walk down the aisle


Taking the plunge - newly weds in Ireland jump off the side of a castle...hope there's something soft to land on
Taking the plunge - newly weds in Ireland jump off the side of a castle...hope there's something soft to land on
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Before you take the plunge or allow your Irish boyfriend  to put a ring on it, please review IrishCentral's list of the pros and cons of marrying an Irishman.  It just might save your sanity, or at least it will prepare you for the madness that awaits.

SIX REASONS TO MARRY AN IRISHMAN:

1. Family is extremely important to an Irishman. Family is the core of an Irish man’s masculinity and the more children he has the more masculine he feels.

2. Irishmen don’t sweat the small stuff. An Irishman has surprisingly great coping strategies. Stress isn’t in the vocabulary of an Irishman, chilled and relaxed is the way he embraces life.

3. An Irishman will go out of his way to do nice things for people who are important to you. He will pick your mother up from the airport even though his favorite team is playing on the television, he will sit with your best friend and listen to her woes, and he will take your brother to play golf even if he doesn’t like him.

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4. An Irishman has a fantastic sense of humor. He makes light of serious situations, which can defuse an argument or simply make you feel better after a hard day's work.

5. An Irishman’s loyalty to his friends is admirable. Aside from his family, an Irishman takes pride in his male friendships and goes out of his way to make certain his friends' needs are met in a generous and heartfelt manner.

6. An Irishman’s heart is as big as the ocean. Although Irishmen might not be the best at expressing their emotions, their actions more often than not speak volumes.

SIX REASONS NOT TO MARRY AN IRISHMAN

1. Mammy will always come first. He may love you but he loves his mother more; you are destined for a life of comparison. “This is how my mother cooks it, this is how my mother does it…. “

2. An Irishman likes to have his wife do most of the household chores including cooking, cleaning and paying the bills. He may help out once in a while but overall it’s the woman who will always run the household with little direction or help from her Irish husband.

3. An Irishman doesn’t like to shop. He thinks it’s okay to wear the same pants and shirt you met him dressed in six years ago to your mother’s retirement party. If you want him to wear new clothes then it will be your responsibility to shop for him. And don’t ask him to come along with you to the mall.


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1 thing's for sure, they have a really really sexy accent... ^.^
I fear there's alot of projection ging on in this articel. It's a case of projective journalism, i.e. a wishlist. Can appreciate how it's sometimes purposeful to write what you want to be the case instead of what is actually is the case. Still, Antoinette! I think you're cute. And watch the guillotines with a name like that. Whatever you do, don;t marry an Irishman called Maximillian Robiespierre.
Exactly Sir! None of my friends have more than 3 kids which would be the maximum. They all do their fair share of housework. Maybe this article is about 'irish' American men?
The average family size in Ireland is 3.In the US it's 2.6 I know for a fact kids make a man feel more like an ATM machine than feeling masculine.
Were these written by an American?
Great article. Sounds just like American men I've dated, except they don't have the pros the Irish men do, esp. 2,3, and 4, all great qualities.
My Father's side of the family are Irish and I for one enjoy the character of the men. They make you laugh,can cheer you up about anything. I would rather marry an Irish man than an American man.
Not a lot of research went into this article--or if it did it must come from about 40 years ago!! lol
Marry an irishman if you must, but for gods sake dont use an irish solicitor to get rid of him, youl be potless for ever after, and dont expect maintenance or alimony cos although it might be the law, youd be very hard pressed to find a copper who gives a cuss bout serving warrants(they have so much more important thing to do) especially if you live in the general area of County Kildare.
I have a sign in my house Being married to an Irishman builds character!
haha very funny!!! Americangirl83 Welcome to the humor of the Irish if you can't laugh at yourself, who can you laugh at!! All in good fun, although some may apply to the older generation!
Hate to tell you guys, but the "six reasons not to marry an Irishman" don't apply to most of the friends that I have. Sane people they are too. Oh, except for number 5. I don't dance. Except waltzing, I can do that.
SEVEN REASONS TO MARRY AN IRISHMAN 7. He could care less about articles written for folly that try to stereotype his individual behavior.
Funny
I really hope this is a joke. This describes most American men as well. So please, stop bashing your own men and enjoy them, will you?
 




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