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My Irish Homecoming - We’re back home but so many are leaving

Many friends and family members now ready to pack up and leave


April, Colum, Sadie and a group of friends.
April, Colum, Sadie and a group of friends.
Photo by April Drew

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There were four in a bed and the little one said… It’s 8:20 a.m. in rainy Limerick and the Mooney family is all snuggled up in bed.

We just moved back to Ireland from New York where I worked with Irish Voice newspaper for many years. Now it is time to face realities back here. 

John is on the Internet researching best man speeches – his best friend/cousin Eoin Markham is getting married on Friday in Galway. Colum (18-months) is guzzling a cup of milk, Sadie (3-months) is very busy trying to turn over, and well, I’m on the laptop writing this.

It’s nice when it’s raining in Ireland to be wrapped up in duvet covers listening to the slush of car tires as they pass by on the wet road and know that all those rain coats I purchased in New York before leaving will be put to good use.

It’s been a busy week in the Mooney household. We’ve been traipsing around Limerick viewing houses to rent for the foreseeable future.

It’s proving a very difficult task to get an unfurnished home. It’s customary in Ireland to rent a house fully furnished. Very handy if your starting out in life, but not so useful if you have a container full of American furniture about to land in Ireland any day now.

There are only about 10 unfurnished homes in the whole of Limerick. We are talking to some more real estate agents today so will see.

It was the June bank holiday weekend here. (Monday was a day off). Following on from the beautiful weather the previous week people bought burgers and beer in the hope of throwing barbeques.

Unfortunately Limerick and Kerry were a wash out on Saturday. It was the first time it rained since our return 10 days earlier.

In Tralee, my home town, I was adamant not to let the rain deter me from my plans, so at about 10 a.m. on Saturday morning I threw on one of those recently purchased fancy rain coats, put Sadie in a rain proof stroller and walked into Tralee town from my mother’s house (only about 20 minutes).

It was nice. It was the first time since our arrival home that it felt like the old Ireland I knew, rainy and cool, and I enjoyed every bit of it.

The rest of the nation didn’t, however. Everyone I met commented about the rain.

“It’s an awful day out there isn’t it,” said a shop keeper while charging me $5 for a sandwich.

“You’re a brave woman taking that baby out in this weather,” said a disgruntled looking middle aged man as we shared a footpath.

“I was supposed to wear a dress out to dinner tonight but the fake tan will run off my legs if this rain continues so I’m going to wear the new jeans I got from Penneys,” said one of my friends.

I think we all know Irish people are a little obsessed about the rain – it dominates every conversation and is the only ice-breaker used when you first meet someone.

But what I quickly learned after a few days in Ireland is that it isn’t just the rain we are obsessed with -- it’s any kind of climate.


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those of you in the US (and elsewhere) left Ireland and became Americans or whatever the country was you went to. If you didn't want to do that you shouldn't have left Ireland. The people who remained in Ireland have decided Ireland's future. If you don't like it, that's too bad. No one asked you to leave and no one is asking you to consider returning.
Hi April,You seem like a very nice lady with a lovely family and I hope that everything works out for you and yours on your return home. However, I sometimes think your coulumns must be very frustrating to the thousand of Irish living here illegally and to the thousands more at home who would give anything for the Green cards that you and yor husband posess.I think people should not take those green cards if you don't intend to stay in the USA. There were tens of thousands of visas granted in the 90's and most of them are probably gathering dust back in Ireland today.Thats so unfair to the people who really need and want them.
IRELAND,I GRIEVE FOR WHAT YOU ARE BECOMING.I HAVE NO WISH TO BE A F,,,,,,, EUROPEAN,AND I DONT WANT TO LIVE IN A MULTI RACIAL MULTI CULTURAL MELTING POT,SCREW PC.THE OLD IRELAND IS GONE,MORES THE PITY,3000.OF OUR YOUNG LEAVING EVERY MONTH AND A BUNCH OF STRANGERS IMPORTED IN,BLOODY MADNESS,SCREW THE EURO AND THE EU.
SeanMor, No disrepect to my English friends, but, when I lived there for 21 years, if anybody had called me part of "the New English", I would not have been at all impressed. I was, am, and always will be "Irish". You are what you are - no amount of "political correctness" and/or patronising platitudes, however well meaning, can change the facts. As for our emigrants returning, I was greeted with open arms, like we all are. As for we Irish considering ourselves "Europeans first", come on - who fed you THAT rubbish? SeanMor, if you want to come back to Ireland, and do so at some stage, have no fear, we will roll out the red (or green - whatever you like) carpet for you - and all the rest of you "over there"! Best Wishes, Éamonn, Dublin, Ireland.
SeanMor, No disrepect to my English friends, but, when I lived there for 21 years, if anybody had called me part of "the New English", I would not have been at all impressed. I was, am, and always will be "Irish". You are what you are - no amount of "political correctness" and/or patronising platitudes, however well meaning, can change the facts. As for our emigrants returning, I was greeted with open arms, like we all are. As for we Irish considering ourselves "Europeans first", come on - who fed you THAT rubbish? SeanMor, if you want to come back to Ireland, and do so at some stage, have no fear, we will roll out the red (or green - whatever you like) carpet for you - and all the rest of you "over there"! Best Wishes, Éamonn, Dublin, Ireland.
SeanMor, No disrepect to my English friends, but, when I lived there for 21 years, if anybody had called me part of "the New English", I would not have been at all impressed. I was, am, and always will be "Irish". You are what you are - no amount of "political correctness" and/or patronising platitudes, however well meaning, can change the facts. As for our emigrants returning, I was greeted with open arms, like we all are. As for we Irish considering ourselves "Europeans first", come on - who fed you THAT rubbish? SeanMor, if you want to come back to Ireland, and do so at some stage, have no fear, we will roll out the red (or green - whatever you like) carpet for you - and all the rest of you "over there"! Best Wishes, Éamonn, Dublin, Ireland.
A Sheoirse, is aoibhinn do ráiteas a léamh agus táim an-bhuíoch díot as. Mar a dúirt an Daibhiseach?, "Níl inti ach leath náisiún tír gann teanga". Cé nach minic a bhíonn seans agam an teanga álainn seo a chur i bhfeidm le Gaeilgeoirí eile, deirim cúpla focal Gaeilge le mo bheanchéile gach uile lá. Cé gur rugadh agus tógadh i Nua-Shasana í, is maith a thuigeann sí abairtíní mas seo: Dún an doras. Las an solas, Tabhair dom scian. Cá bhfuil mo scocaí? - agus dornán eile mar iad. Ní chuirfinn a lán lochta ar na daoine in Éinrinn a tháinig ó thíorta eile nuair a chuireann siad in iúl dúinn nach bhfuil aon tacaíocht acu don Ghaeilge. Is soléir dóibh nach bhfuil meas mo mhadra ag cuid mhaith den dream sa Dáil ar an dteanga oifigiúil den Stát. Go maire an Ghaeilge choíche, go deo, go hearr aimsire.
A Sheanmor (nó a Sheáin Mhóir?): Ní cheapaimse gur amadán thú toisc go mbaineann tú feidhm as teanga ársa na nGael. Is suimiúl an t-ábhar a luann tú, sé sin cén tionchur a bheidh ag na hinimircigh ar thodhchaí na Gaeilge. Is léir nach bhfuil suim dá laghad ag formhór na ninimirceach sa teanga, agus tá mé cinnte nach fada go mbeidh siad ag éileamh nach múinfí í dá gcuid pháisti. Cén fáth go mbeadh bá ag duine as an Phólainn nó an Rúis leis an teanga Gaeilge? Cheana féin chonacamar cúpla bliain ó shin cás cúirte i gCiarraí ina raibh tuismitheoirí cailín Rúise ag gearán mar go raibh ”iachall” á chur ar a n-iníon an Ghaeilge a fhoghlaim. Agus é seo i nDaingean, baile Gaeltachta (mar dhea)! Agus chun sampla eile a thabhairt duit, bhíos féin ar Arann tamall ó shin, agus thug mé faoi ndeara go raibh scata mhór d’oibrithe as Oirthear na hEorpa fostaithe ann, ach nach raibh puinn Gaeilge ag duine ar bith a labhair mé leis, agus ní raibh suim acu sa teanga ach an oiread.
Irishandproud: I'd like to know what percentage of the natives of the Irish state share your opinion. As I understand it, recent arrivals, including Arabs, Indians and Africans are no longer considered foreign nationals but the new Irish. When those of us who are Irish natives return, where do we fit in among the 'modern' Irish who regard themselves as Europeans first? Agus cad mar gheall ar an nGaeilge?. Nuair a dheinim iarracht an teanga sin a labhairt, ceapeann cuid mhaith acu gur amadán atá ionam.
Certainly a reflection that emigrants can't afford to return to Ireland or if they return can't afford to buy a house when house prices are at the lowest they've been in years. They didn't do well in the US at all.
Reilly1 with the young Irish leaving Ireland and less educated workers as your competition, go for it, live your life the way you would like it, Go back to Ireland, you are still a citizen of Ireland you have less impediments than others, anyone can afford to pursue what they really want if they decide to go for it.
The Mooneys won't have to worry about driving yet. Their US driving licenses, if they had them (many in the Bronx who emigrated couldn't learn to drive) aren't valid in Ireland. They have to pass the new driving regulations which are far stricter than the old ones. They'll even need a sponsor under the new rules!
If I may, a "follow up" to my message to April Drew, below. I have just looked through the rest of the posts, and I realised that I might appear to be a little unfeeling towards those others who say they wish they could return to Ireland. I say this in all sincerity - if I had to leave Ireland again, the only place I would wish to go to is the United States. I have always had a great welcome there, and that is primarily due to the fact that those Irish who have made a new life there through the years have paved the way for acceptance and love towards the Irish by Americans. So, you have all done, and are still doing, a great job over there - making any required transition from Ireland far easier to make good than it might otherwise have been. To you all I say - keep it up and be happy and proud! God Bless You All. Éamonn, Dublin, Ireland.
Welcome home, April - and your family. Céad Míle, Míle Fáilte! I spent 21 years in England and came back home with my young family 32 years ago. I liked England and the English people, but it's always great to "come back to Éireann". Happy though I was to be home, I initially found it quite difficult to adjust back to Irish life. The bad driving - ignoring the rules of the road, the ignorance of failing to let another driver out from a side road, the failure to let pedestrians have their chance to cross the road, the failure to allow an oncoming right-turning car to go around in front of you in order to let the cars behind it get moving again, etc., ad infinitum, made me sad. The very slow, lackadaisical attitude to life raised an eyebrow of wonder. Dare I say it - the unkempt appearance of a lot of our society - most men seemed to have never heard of shoe polish, etc.(this was 32 years ago,it has improved since). And a few other bits and pieces! Then, one day, I muttered to another member of an unmoving queue that the delay was ridiculous. He said simply, "Sure what would you be doing"? It was then I realised that perhaps it was ME! Five minutes wasn't going to make any difference. Now? Happy as Larry! I wouldn't live anywhere else. Neither would my family. So, April, make the most of it. Forget the weather bit - could be worse, we don't have earthquakes, tsunamis or much natural disasters. Enjoy the fact that you can talk to total strangers, about anything, anywhere. Enjoy the fact that you can cross the country to see any of our beautiful scenery in a short enough drive. Enjoy the fact that a really sunny day is like heaven on earth! Enjoy the fresh food. Enjoy the sense of humour and fun. Enjoy just enjoying yourself. And, when you are working, be happy and do it to the best of your ability, as no doubt you already do. Go to it April - ENJOY IRELAND, and your family with you! God Bless, Éamonn, Dublin, Ireland.
Cead Mile Failte, my fellow Irish! If only it was the case vastly more...Irish returning home, and Africans/Asians/Muslims LEAVING. It is not possible for such groups to contribute to Irish culture; every such person who enters Ireland makes it that much less Irish. Every Irish person who returns preserves Ireland that much more.




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