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The Irish Homecoming - Enjoying the brief glorious summer and reconnecting with the family

A brief bout of summer weather has APRIL DREW very happy with her decision to move back to ireland


Colum Mooney hanging out in the glorious sun in Ireland
Colum Mooney hanging out in the glorious sun in Ireland
Photo by April Drew

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I’m just in the door from 10 a.m. Mass. The beautiful, quaint structure is five minutes on foot from our home in Limerick. It’s right beside a school.

Many locals get married and have their children baptized at this country church. We will follow suit and hold Sadie’s christening there in a few weeks.

Sadie’s affair will be very modest compared to Colum’s New York one.  His was held at St. Patrick’s Cathedral in 2011. We had all our New York family and friends present.  Sadie’s baptism will be a much smaller, intimate gathering with just immediate family.

Today at Mass 34 people scattered themselves throughout the traditional chapel, including my 20-month-old son Colum and I. Ninety-five percent of the congregation appeared to be 50 and up.

It’s a nice Mass. It’s short (30 minutes) but gets down to business also.

We want our kids to have some sort of religious structure as they grow, so in an effort to get Colum acquainted with God and the church I thought Sunday’s little outing would be a good start. Now I’m not so sure it was a good idea!

We were a few minutes late due to a horrendous rain shower.  I waited it out in the car until it calmed down.  Colum is fascinated with the rain and was quick to give the parishioners a weather update as soon as we tried to creep in the back of the church.

“Raining, raining,” he kept shouting while pointing outside. A few heads turned in our direction. A number of polite smiles and gentle nods were exchanged.

Anyone who made the mistake of making eye contact with Colum was further engaged.  He shook his head in disgust shouting the words rain and wet.

After finally getting him off the rain subject by asking him to whisper he sat on my lap for a few minutes. He looked around at everything.

A few minutes of quietness ensued from my corner as the priest went about his business. Just as the readings were about to start Colum noticed the flaming candles at the side of the church.

And off he went again -- “birthday, (or in Colum speak “burtdea”) Mommy,” “blow birthday.”

It is my husband John’s 35th birthday today -- he was in bed after coming off a night shift and our five-month daughter was being looked after by my friends from Tralee who were up for the weekend.

Colum was very eager to get off the seat and go over to blow out the electrically lit candles – gone are the days of real candles. I tried to tell him they weren’t birthday candles for Daddy’s birthday, but he wasn’t having any of it. He spent a few more minutes telling those who would listen – the church is so small I think he drowned out the priest – about his daddy’s birthday.

That was nearly the end of Colum’s drama at Mass until it came to mommy receiving the “body of Christ” in the form of bread. “Me bread, me bread.” I was so close to taking some of it out of my mouth and giving him a taste to shut him up, but I was full sure if I did that the priest might not baptize my daughter in a few weeks.


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What is wrong with this poster? The children should go to Mass for more then one reseason. If you attend mass nitwit you would see some families do it for more then one reason
The last 2 masses I attended in Ireland were in 2009. Before these masses began, the priest addressed the congregation as follows: "Dia is Muire duit" as though he were speaking to one peron. His corect greeting would be "Dia is Muire daoibh", the last word being the plural form of "duit". In any case, I was reminded of the old adage: "Is fearr Gaeilge bhriste ná Gaeilge chliste". Slán libh go léir anois agus go n-éirí an bóthar libh.
@angrypaddy, I'd suggest that if April's column doesn't meet your high journalistic standards and is too mundane, you should not read it. There are plenty of articles about the "ills" of the Catholic church, bad priests, and the promoting of Obama for re-election on this cite for you to read and comment on. I find April's column a breath of fresh air from all those articles I just mentioned. Keep us updated, April. I enjoy reading about your life in Ireland.
What a load of boring gibberish,Would the last person to leave turn out the lights.You call that rubbish journalism
all of your Irishborn readers understand and enjoy you sharing your activities with us-takes us back to the simple good times and visits to the strands(beaches). Keep on trucking!!!!
A very disturbing report illustrating all that is wrong with society today .Parents not teaching their children discipline and manners ,they seem to think that their little brats are the centre of the universe !
Maybe next time think of the adults who are attending Mass and don't need to have the whole ceremony punctuated by your child's cries and shouts. Would you let your child act like that in a cinema or restaurant? Leave the kid at home, or watch Mass on TV if necessary.
A bit "off the wall", but I do like your updates, April.
Sounds like nice way to spend a fine summer's day, Don't be ashamed of going to mass as todays society tries to convince people that it's trivial. Kilkee having lunch with only a match to make time for these are the times to remember. Cheers.
 




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