Last night I was sitting by the fireside in my old farmhouse in rural West Cork. The wind was rustling in the trees and I could hear the stream gurgling under the old stone bridge outside my front door.
The fire crackled softly, a candle was lit, and the baby was contentedly asleep upstairs: peace. As it was St Patrick’s Day, I was treating myself to a glass of whiskey: perfection.
Yet there I was, in a quiet corner of County Cork, in conversation with people in Tennessee, New Orleans and New York about our shared Irish heritage.
The Internet has changed our world in many ways. For the Irish Diaspora, it may yet prove to have very far-reaching and very positive consequences. Since journalism moved online, many writers have expressed mixed feelings about the ability of readers to instantly post comments. Some comments are very insightful, but others just vent spleen.
Yesterday, the advent of online commenting proved its worth to me. For St Patrick’s Day, I had written a short reflection on a moment in NYC a few years ago when my wife and I stumbled upon the Irish Hunger Memorial in Manhattan. [LINK] I was deeply moved by the comments posted from America:
An elderly Irish-American lady recalled: “my mother came as a servant girl and my father came as a laborer in the mines of Pennsylvania and the tunnels of New York. They taught us to love the United States and respect our Irish heritage.”
People from North Carolina and California told their family’s stories. Many had ancestors who arrived just after the famine. The emotional depth of the connection between the two countries was expressed succinctly by one American who said “my eyes did a bit of sweating upon touchdown at Shannon on my first and only trip to Ireland.”
Another spoke of visiting Cobh, Country Cork and imagining what her grandmother felt when the ship pulled away from the quayside there, taking her away from her beloved homeland forever.
What a privilege to be able hear all these people’s stories on St Patrick’s Day, even as I sat by my fireside, thousands of miles away in Ireland.
After my own grandmother passed away, we found boxes of beautifully written letters from her family members who had emigrated to America decades earlier. She missed them so much, but never saw them again. Carried by ship, those letters took weeks to arrive from across the Atlantic. A whole season would have passed by the time the reply came. Nowadays we can communicate instantaneously and New York City is only five hours from Shannon by plane.
Yesterday in Washington DC, the Irish Taoiseach was hosted by President Obama, Joe Biden and Nancy Pelosi, all of whom have Irish ancestry. President Obama said that St Patrick’s Day is, “a day to thank the Irish people for all they have done for America; few nations so small have had such an enormous impact on another".
I felt that the thanks should go the other direction too, particularly as many Americans feel that positive sentiments about America rarely emanate from Ireland these days. All I can say is that the empty vessels often do make the most noise: there are always going to be a few noisy cynics and detractors. In truth, most Irish people think about America very affectionately, and have done since its very inception. Look at President Obama’s own words yesterday:
“This is rightly a day for celebration and good cheer between America and one of her oldest friends -– and it’s a partnership that extends to our earliest days as a Republic… let me leave you with the words from those early days that speak to why this has been such an incredible relationship between our two countries. These are words spoken by the father of our country, George Washington:
‘When our friendless standards were first unfurled, who were the strangers who first mustered around our staff? And when it reeled in the light, who more brilliantly sustained it than Erin’s generous sons? Ireland, thou friend of my country in my country’s most friendless days, much injured, much enduring land, accept this poor tribute from one who esteems thy worth, and mourns thy desolation. May the God of Heaven, in His justice and mercy, grant thee more prosperous fortunes, and in His own time, cause the sun of Freedom to shed its benign radiance on the Emerald Isle.’
The Taoiseach quoted a more recent US President, John F. Kennedy, noting how he once described Ireland’s Diaspora as a “fraternal empire.” Kennedy also said that “whether we live in Cork or Boston, Chicago or Sydney, we are all members of a great family which is linked together by that strongest of chains -- a common past.”
Nowadays, we can share a common front room too, online. Perhaps, centuries after having been carried away on wooden ships, the scattered Irish Diaspora is now finding gathering places on the Internet.
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Switch to the desktop site to post a comment.liliying | Jun 11, 2010, 09:26 PM EDT
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LORIEANN | Mar 23, 2010, 10:19 PM EDT
I love Ireland. ...have been there twice and felt almost like a religious experience .....loved my grandma murphy and her stories ...loved and feared the Irish nuns and priests who taught me in school.. felt so much at home in Ireland ....had the opportunity to travel to the west... the north... the east and south and saw my great grandparents home city of cork and waterford....so moving and felt such a connection to my family...would go back in a heartbeat....I`m also an avid irish everything reader and product consumer omg qvc and st.patrick`s day omg the connemara marble jewelry....wish I could live there some day
gcwfromcanada | Mar 21, 2010, 09:38 PM EDT
I have to agree with the author - knowing about my Irish heritage is very important to me even if I don't know any family living there after all this time. My small town does not recognize St. Patrick's Day at all so there is no one here I can share my interest with, but on the internet I have several friends living in Ireland and I'm always happy to hear from them. To me, being Irish isn't simply being born in Ireland, it's feeling the connection to Ireland no matter how long ago the direct decendency ended. Like many thousands of people, when my plane was landing in Ireland for the first time - I truly felt as if I were coming home. Corny - absolutely! True - absolutely! I love Ireland and am passionate about it. I read everything I can get my hands on from Irish school history books to ship passenger lists and travel guides. My trip to Ireland was one of the high points of my life and I would give a lot if I could do it again.
killowen | Mar 21, 2010, 04:20 PM EDT
Uisce beagha (water of life) stuff. Faith is a good thing. Good friend erin south offered little support to northern brothers thirsting to breathe free. Seemingly happy being a poodle with its head missing. George Washington would have a different view were he around to see where we've come. Without Celto Roman Patrick we'd be fully incorporated within the UK framework. His preaching made us cling to what he brought with him and stubborn to what the occupier tried to push. RC scandals are now rocking the foundation laid by Patrick but I'd imagine that his parades are necessary to add color to cities/towns across the globe. It's fun to party.
carrickcourt | Mar 21, 2010, 10:26 AM EDT
Being very interested in my Irish family history the internet has been great to "find" and keep in touch with I Irish relations. I had email from a third cousin on my Irish great grandmother's side from Wicklow Town on St. Patrick's Day, who also shares my interest in family history. Later I noted a photo of the St.Patrick's Day parade in Wicklow Town on the RTE Web site but was not able to spot my cousin or his family in this photo. Yesterday I had an email from a third cousin on my Irish great grandfathers's side from Dublin. Cousin Ruth advised me that two of her sisters were also at the Wicklow Town St. Patrick' Day parade!
jrsp1937 | Mar 20, 2010, 10:35 AM EDT
Please add these corrections to my comment. "my heart to the land" etc. "contained 200 years of that heritage" etc. Having trouble with my computer. Thanks. jrsp
jrsp1937 | Mar 20, 2010, 10:33 AM EDT
This truly brought my heart t the land f my grandparents' birth. My grandmother, as a young girl, also came to the USA as a domestic in the very early part of the 1900's. All she had of her family and its heritage came with her in a trunk. Her glass door hutch contained 20 years of that heritage each cup and saucer and glass with a story of its own, her pride and joy and my connection with the land. Like so many others, she was never able to go back. The legacy of her memories was passed along to me, however, the treasures from her homeland have long since disappeared, sold at auction after her death to pay for her nursing home care. Yes, we are, indeed, all members of a great family as the Kennedy quote says.
McNamara31 | Mar 19, 2010, 01:39 PM EDT
Rory, Simply brilliant article! When you quoted Kennedy as saying “whether we live in Cork or Boston, Chicago or Sydney, we are all members of a great family which is linked together by that strongest of chains -- a common past" it stuck a strong cord with me and I'm sure many around the globe.
tomgallagher | Mar 19, 2010, 01:17 PM EDT
Well put Rory.
jacquimc | Mar 19, 2010, 12:03 PM EDT
what a wonderful letter thank you
joanmoody | Mar 19, 2010, 11:09 AM EDT
I agree it is a wonderful article. My people came to the US in 1852 and landed at Baltiore from Liverpool. From there came to Texas with the US Army on the frontier where they were stationed in Texas where my family has stayed ever since. I was taught to be proud of my Irish heritage. My family has lived in San Antonio since 1894 but has been in Texas since 1865. The sad part is that there are no records to actually say who the parents were. Oral tradition says the great-grandmother's were from Cork and Cavan. On death certificates their father's names are given but not the mothers's and they were Michael Jennings ( Cork) daughter Anne A Jennings Kramer Parkman and Thomas McCue (McHugh Cavan) and his daughter was Kate (Katherine) McHugh Oswalt. When an uncle died a few years ago old pictures that none of the family had ever seen of the Irish side of the family taken in the early 20th century came to light. If there ever was an Irish pride it was more so after seeing those pictures.
mandokeith | Mar 19, 2010, 09:46 AM EDT
Wow Rory, what a wonderful article. I hope you will write more I enjoy reading your words. Your description of your home in Cork gives me tingles (I wish I was there), abd you description of the events at the White House are thrilling and make me proud of my two hetitages (Irish/American). Thank-you and write again, this site NEEDS more positive pro Irish heatrwarming articles and less gossipy embarassing celebrity slop. Go raibh maith agat!