On St. Valentine's Day - Why American women are wild about Irish guys

The experts give us their verdict

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MOLLY MULDOON,

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What makes Irish men such a hot commodity in the U.S.? MOLLY MULDOON talks to men, women and some experts, including the Millionaire Matchmaker, Patti Stanger, about the everlasting appeal of the rogue Irish man.
 
When Patti Stanger was 19 she fell in love with an Irish bartender.

“The accent totally got me, he looked like Gabriel Byrne and I remember he was the best kisser,” the U.S. dating expert told the Irish Voice during an interview on Tuesday.

Stanger, a third generation match maker, CEO and star of the hit Bravo TV show Millionaire Matchmaker, says she can easily see why Irish men prove so popular in a U.S. context.

“They are rugged, tall, sexy and they take charge. You feel like a woman next to them,” she says.

“I would rather have an Irishman than a pretty Wall Street feminine man who makes a lot of money,” she revealed.

The former director of marketing for Great Expectations, the oldest dating service in the U.S., Stanger recalls even in high school in New Jersey that she liked the Irish guys the most. She describes the Kennedy brothers as the “epitome of an Irish American who we all drooled over.”

In one of the world’s largest melting pots such as New York, an Irishman’s brogue will provide endless opportunities with the ladies.

Stanger, who has made her fortune through matchmaking for the wealthy, says her advice for an Irish man wooing that special woman is to “put the whiskey down and don’t drink the whole bottle.”

Stanger also said she wouldn’t mind checking out what’s on offer at Ireland’s famous matchmaking festival at Lisdoonvarna.

“I always wanted to attend and see that,” she said.

“A drinking, fighting, poetic tongued man,” is how David Power, a former New York bartender describes your average Irish man in the New York.

The Dubliner, who met his American girlfriend while working as bartender, says Irish heritage is a big windfall on the dating scene.

“We are new, unknown territory with a good reputation for boozing and banter,” he summed up.

“We are also polar opposites of American men, so in a way we are a niche market.”

Since trading his life behind the taps for a career in finance, Power reflects that most Irish men are equally in awe of American women.
“You'll also find few Irish bartenders that have Irish girlfriends,” he said.

Monaghan man, Brian O’Reilly works as a bartender in Eamonn Doran's bar in Brooklyn and admits he has been known to use his Irish charisma to win over the ladies.

“It helps quite a bit to be honest. They ask, ‘Where are you from,’ and when I say ‘Ireland’ it’s an ice breaker right away,” he told the Irish Voice.

“Basically the big difference is the same type of woman at home wouldn't look at you. Being Irish you have an advantage.” O’Reilly, who grew up with five sisters, says from an early age he was taught how to treat his female companions.

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