Top ten words Irish women say to their men - and what they’re really saying

What do these words in the title mean: "what they’re really saying"? These words seem to suggest that women do not say what we mean. Instead of trying to teach men a code for figuring women out, Kathy Hayes would do more good to remind men to take what women say seriously because, almost always, we do indeed say what we mean. People can't build good relationships by playing code-breaking games with each other.

My wife isnt Irish. Yet still says the same words. With the same meanings... Must be a female thing

All 10 are quite universal and not Irish specific.