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Phoebe Prince’s father urges teachers to lead the battle against bullying

Jeremy Prince backs new campaign in Ireland to combat bullies


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The heartbroken father of schoolgirl Phoebe Prince has appealed to teachers to log every instance of bullying to ensure no family ever suffers like his again.

Jeremy Prince lost his daughter when 15-year-old Phoebe took her own life after she had suffered bullying by classmates at South Hadley High school in Massachusetts.

Phoebe had only recently moved to the US with her mother. Five students at the college have since been sentenced to community service or probation.

Backing a campaign to stop bullying in Irish schools, Jeremy Prince has urged teachers to take the lead in the fight against the bullies.

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“Using a computer in the staffroom, teachers who witness incidents of aggression could type the aggressor and the victims’ names into a computer program which uses analysis software,” said Prince, now resident in the Clare town of Lisdoonvarna.

“This would show up the names of repeat victims and also show up the names of serial aggressors. At this point the parents should be called in.

“One of the problems with schools is parents always go on the defensive and say things like: ‘My little angel would never do something like that’ but if you had that log saying these are the witnesses and these are the dates and this is what happened it would completely eradicate that problem.”

Admitting that life is very difficult in the wake of Phoebe’s death, Prince told reporters that he still finds it difficult to discuss what happened as the family try to protect Phoebe’s 12-year-old sister from further trauma after she discovered the body.

He also revealed that the family continues to receive hundreds of letters of support from all over the world, many from victims of bullying.

Phoebe’s ashes were brought back to Ireland earlier this year by her mother Anne O’Brien, herself a schoolteacher.

The family are backing the newly formed National Anti Bullying Coalition (NABC) group which includes parents, students and teachers.

The NABC want Ireland’s Education Minister Ruairi Quinn to introduce strengthened procedures that would lead to schools being awarded a Safe School flag.

Here's a clip from CBS' report on Phoebe's death:


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These things happen. In school, I've been bullied, and I've bullied other kids. It is part of growing up. When I went to school, if you were bad, then you got swats, or a paddling. Ironicly, I never got swatted when I deserved, and got swatted when I didn't deserve it. Today the school calls in the police, and the child goes to court. Home Schooling does not have this problem. When you combined Home Schooling with Cyber School, then prison type or Regulars Schools will become unnecessary.
Unbelievable. It still gets me what happened to her.
Sadly this is still going on and children are still committing suicide because of it. The surprising thing here is that no teacher or admin staff were ever made to answer for their callus regard to this bullying. Heard and seen by many in the school and it was just allowed to continue. The school was nothing but defensive 1. they didn't even realize it was happening (lie) 2. she didn't tell anyone (lie) 3. happened off school property, cyber etc. (partly). A teacher, at least one was reported to have said she brought it upon herself and this was after her death. All of the usual defensive lies and it is still happening. Teachers need the tools and the funds to implement a "human safety factor" within those school walls. Give me a break and in the next breath they say those students who stand by must do something, so the kids know what to do but the teachers don't. This is all just defensive, wrong and quite insane conversation about this that has allowed it to continue and fluorish. Teachers are adults, they are in a leadership role - if they can't do anything then they should never be in charge where children gather daily for most of the time in their daily lives. Teachers made to report, made to let it be known thoughout the school this is not acceptable, take affirmative action whenever they see or hear it or be relieved of their duties.
It is definitely a concern in most schools and the push now to have those who witness bullying to step up and do what they can to intervene is the best way to overcome this. That will take a whole new mindset and courage but Phoebe's story is just one sad, preventable tragedy that can and must be stopped.
 




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