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Bishop Willie Walsh

One of Ireland's leading bishops has revealed he almost left his vocation after he fell in love, but eventually decided to stay where he was. He also stated he would like to see women be permitted to become priests.

Bishop Willie Walsh of Killaloe in Clare, who is 75 and retiring, said "There would have been a small number of people in my life that I would have felt very attracted to and would have loved the opportunity of... indeed visualizing them as a partner for life.

"Certainly, there was a small number of people. Thankfully, I don't feel that I ever exploited that friendship," he said.

"Some of them would be some of my closest friends still and to whom I would have been very attracted towards at all levels of feeling and I would feel confident that those feelings were reciprocated.

"I gradually convinced myself that this was the best way for me. There is no guarantee if I left priesthood at that time that I would have been happy in marriage," he said. "There was a period during my 40s when I did seriously consider leaving priesthood, but looking back on it now I'm glad I didn't," he said. Walsh was speaking to a local radio station Clare FM.

Asked why he considered leaving, Walsh said: "I never had difficulty about the values that Christ gave us, but certainly I would have struggled with faith and certain aspects of our moral teaching and so on.

"Also perhaps at times an over-emphasis (by the church) in the area of sexuality and perhaps not enough emphasis in the area of justice.

"I gradually convinced myself that this was the best way for me. There is no guarantee if I left priesthood at that time that I would have been happy in marriage," he said.

Walsh -- who will remain Bishop of Killaloe until his successor is appointed, also re-opened the debate on women becoming priests -- by stating that he would welcome it.

"I would certainly have no difficulty if it was seen that that was the right way to proceed. I would welcome it," he said.

"I really believe -- and I have said this on a number of occasions -- that if somehow women had been more seriously involved in decision-making in the church, I think that this dreadful tragedy would not have happened," he said.

"I certainly always find that if I am faced with a very serious human issue, I would tend by instinct -- if I wanted to consult someone -- I would consult a woman friend."

Walsh also said he would be telling the Pope during a meeting later this month how disappointed he was with the Vatican response to the sexual abuse crisis.

"I was quite disappointed with the response of the Vatican to the Murphy commission when they were asked to respond and giving excuses that it should have through the Department of Foreign Affairs.



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Shows he's a real man, in tune with his own masculinity and recognising that love of a woman is holy, good and beautiful. Yet he chose to be true to his vow. Oh if all our bishops had fallen in love with a woman. Oh that all our bishops, like the bishops of old, had the choice to follow Christ in the sacrament of Holy Matrimony in which they would experience what is meant when Paul wrote "Husbands, love your wives as Christ loves the Church". How can an unmarried man possibly understand this?
My heart goes out to this Bishop! He did what he thought best, some 30 years ago. Others who did/do the opposite, however, should not earn our scorn. I recently posted on an old story, regarding celibacy. In it, I said that feelings for the opposite sex can't be wished away; they will always be there. I advocated that priests, and sisters be allowed to marry. I further said that nobody should object to a priest dating a woman in his own parish. If some deep counseling was performed, then a buffer zone, say a year, should be established. After the year, the female parishioner should no longer be in a vulnerable state, and the socializing could proceed. I laugh at Catholics, and fundamentalists (like Baptists) who still believe that "impure thoughts", like imagining a close encounter with Jennifer Aniston, will "send us to hell", unless we ask God's forgiveness. Any god who would do so, for such a normal activity, would be a tyrant! Sexuality should only be considered sinful if the partner is taken advantage of. So long as both are of legal age, and neither is married, the Catholic Church should stop preaching medieval doctrines to repress human sexuality, down to our very thoughts!
Anyone who can God in this church of idol worshipers would see no fault in their bishops, 'Portia' You are very correct in Ancient times Peoples were led in faith by Female leaders who were of course more reliable and trustworthy than their male counterparts, But in the church of graft and corruption they could not rely on them not to blow the whistle and so subsequently the only females this bunch can attract are a bitter condescending hoard of frustrated penileavertisctic sadists whom we call nuns a better name would have been Nones.
jacersisityourself....I did not say that compulsory celibacy is the cause, although, In some individuals compulsory celibacy certainly is a factor. I said there is something deeply unhealthy about the hierarchical Church and that "something" is bigger than compulsory celibacy. In any case, compulsory celibacy is built on a very dangerous foundation and eventually was forced on the Church for all the wrong reasons. In any case, to try and placate our selves we RC's have no right to try and pull the splinter out of other's eyes whilst ignoring the log in our own. Your worrying response re "Catholic-bashers" perhaps reveals more about your own fears.
Bishop Walsh has his view and he is entitled to it. Lets face it, the Catholic Church is, well a broad "Church" with a range of views among its members.If that is his view, god luck to the man; and it is a view that I share in large measure. And for those who would decry his words, or his deeds, even after so many years in Ministry, look to the words in Scripture first. "Do not Judge others unless you yourself are prepared for judgment" Easier said than done.......!!!
On the topic, Bishop Walsh is one of the most admired of bishops in Ireland. Over the years of service he’s given to the Irish Catholic Church and its followers, he’s always been forthright in his views in public, on radio and TV or in the press and has said what a lot of lay Irish Catholics would be afraid to say. His humility is wondrous to see and his ‘way of saying things’, quietly yet firmly, show him to be a good leader and an exceptionally good man at heart. It was therefore with some surprise that I saw him named in the Murphy Report as one of the bishops alleged to have failed to act. But I put it this way to you... I work in a career as Bishop Walsh does, except we are in very widely different fields of vocation. I have been aware of things that were not ‘right’ in my time but my objections to them were ignored or overruled by more senior people in my field of work. Does that mean that I should resign? I think not... I’ve let seniors take responsibility for ultimate decisions. We need perspective in these kinds of discussions.
I always enjoy Niall’s articles and his responses to some comments posted on IC. Under this topic, I find him way offline. Hopefully he is not becoming a Catholic Basher on a different tangent, him being native Irish and all that. I have my differences with my freely-chosen Christian church, that of Catholicism, but differences don’t mean that I need to spread hatred over decisions by ‘higher-ups’. I leave it in God’s hands to decide... He is the Supreme Decision-maker, it’s His World, I am confident He can run it His way despite the attacks He faces from his erstwhile angel S*tan and his mouthpieces, which appear to include a majority in media careers. I hope Niall and colleagues don’t fall foul of S*tan’s ways.
Who has made more mistakes in history the much attacked Catholic Church or the Journalist empire. And the next time you launch an attack on the Catholic Church. (I expect many more from you,) You need to do a good study of the life of Jesus.
The mistake the church made was in investing this man as a Bishop as he is obviously more concerned about himself, his own needs and desires than the fact that he made vows of celibacy. In addition, the feelings of the women he fell in love with seem to play no part in his decision to remain in the priesthood. What a shallow man. I think the church would be well rid of him. As far as celibacy being natural is concerned, single people, those with an absent, sick or deceased partner are usually able to deal with it. It is a natural aspect of life, not perhaps one that most people would opt for, but life throws up difficulties for most of us at times, ordained and lay.
Yes allan i do see something deeply unnatural in preventing men who become priests in expressing their sexuality in a natural way.The catholic church in their wisdom also sanctioned the inquisition. They are as fallible as everyone else
Now, that is what I would call a good and honest bishop. He is showing good common sense. His comments have partially restored my faith in bishops.
Niall, the bishop showing his humanity is the reason this is a valid and "heartwarming" story? His humanity is not in question. By the mere fact that he is human he is part of humanity. There is nothing surprising about it. You appear to be honoring his lack of fortitude, his vacillation and weak belief. Good gosh, what a weak, self-interested human being! The man is an embarrassment to the church. On another front: What is natural about celibacy? Human beings using their reasoning is natural. We are not brute beasts held captive by our passions. Unlike animals, we can choose which actions are appropriate and which are not for our commitments in life. The instinct to punch the guy in front of us in the head who just cut our automobile off is natural, but it's not what most of us do because we exercise our reasoning powers. We all have many natural inclinations which we reject because we process the situation with our reasoning. The Catholic Church, in its God-given wisdom, has determined that the ordained are to reject marriage for the celibate state and give that time, energy and love to God and souls. You see something unnatural in that?
ThomasCoolberth. INFALLIBLY: NO WOMEN PRIESTS .. EVER. What WombMan in her right mind would want to dress up and play being a priest in the Catholic cult? A man in a dress declaring himself infallable- he might have conned us a few decades ago, but not now. Women were priesteses in ancient times and reveered by real men. Looks like there was more equality before the Catholic Cult began murdering the women priestesses/witches. Of course the Vatican had to get rid of women- healing all the poor for free- it had to make way for the patriarchal medical mafia- $$$$$$$$$$$
Read Ordinatio Sacerdotalis written by Pope John Paul II about a week after ArchDruid of Canterbury started ordaining women. Short version: INFALLIBLY: NO WOMEN PRIESTS .. EVER. So the Bishop's wishes may be nice but they will never happen. This clarity is a good thing. Those that women priests are free to go elsewhere. And, yes, what is ti with Irishcentral.com's obsession with tearing at the Church?
Vincent from Austrlia-- not fair to say irishcentral shouldn't report this story-- it is actually a heartwarming one in my opinion where a bishop shows his humanity.Will someone please tell me what is 'natural' about celibacy?
Apologies everyone---my computer blipped out. REPEAT: "almost" only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades.
""Almost"" only counts in horseshoes and ha
By my count, the good bishop used the pronoun "I" 26 times in the brief quoted text. With that much I-ing, one wonders how he had time for service to Christ and his flock. Hmmm....
By a quick count, the good bishop used the pronoun "I" 26 times in the quoted sentences. With that much I-ing, one wonders how he ever had time to think about service to Christ and his flock. Hmmm....
So what happens when the women priest gives into temptation and becomes pregnant? Every suggestion coming from Irishcentral.com seems to be an attack on the long traditions of the Catholic Church. Which also fits in nicely with the New World Orders plans for an one world religion, the major code word her is interfaith gatherings.Divide and conquer nearly always weakens and seldom makes an organization stronger.
I very much welcome the humanity of Bishop Willie Walsh. The good bishop would have been less than a man if he didn't fall in love with a woman at least once. I also admire him for sticking to is job and his vows. As to women priest, that is a great theological argument where I, a simple priest of another jurisdiction that also does not ordain women, do not have the answer. The Very Rev. Canon Daniel P.H. Beegan MOB Catholic Charismatic Church USA
HI; I think the bishop is "right on". I have found women to be a leveling rod in society and in my life. I think if women has a more prominent role in the church, such as , at least, Deaconess, many abuses would have been prevented.
This man should have turned down the promotion to Bishop and left the priesthood!!!!!!!!!!!
 


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