From 1831 through 1916, the national Boston Pilot newspaper printed some 45,000 "Missing Friends" advertisements placed by friends and relatives in attempts to locate loved ones lost during emigration. These ads, consolidated into edited volumes, provide a valuable record of a poor emigrant population trying to reach one another.
“Since it was a very large movement of people, many of whom left little behind, it’s hard to know the personal stuff,” said Emer O'Keeffe, an editor of several of the volumes. “This is what the ads provide; they speak directly to us, and this intimacy makes them appealing. John Fallon ‘had light hair, blue eyes; was about four feet, four inches in height; wore a blue spencer, a new scoop shovel cap, a fancy pants and had a freckled face.’ You can really see this boy! You can often glimpse a personality. Thomas Sullivan was described by his wife as ‘of medium height, brown hair, fair complexion, and free in conversation.’ The vulnerability of individuals left stranded is also clear. James Rourke’s wife and children were ‘daily mourning his absence.’ Catherine Kelly sought her husband, signing herself ‘the mother of his four living children.’ The voices of these emigrants resonate still.
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In their own words, through the Boston Pilot listings, emigrants express their hope, fear and loss. “The ads run the gamut of immigrant experience and the tone reflects this,” Emer O’Keeffe said, “From personal emotions – vulnerability and loss, hope and pride when things are going well – to the larger social movements. The tone of the 1847 listings, for example, is very different from that of the 1890s when the immigrants are more prosperous and social networks much more evolved. … [Famine emigrants] certainly didn’t give up the hope of locating [their loved ones]. Many immigrants placed ads again and again for family they might not have seen or heard from in decades. And the ads weren’t cheap: thousands paid their daily wage and more ($1) for an ad that would run three times.”
Emer O’Keeffe embarked on this project with a personal resonance. “I came to the U.S. in 1983 to attend Northeastern University’s graduate history program,” she told Irish America. “The 1980s was a very grim time economically in Ireland, with huge numbers of people emigrating to the U.S., England, and Australia. Most of my undergraduate class ended up emigrating. But I was the only member of my large family to leave home, and back then it wasn’t as easy to stay in touch. We didn’t have cell phones or e-mail, and phone calls were more expensive. We wrote a lot of letters! It was easy to empathize with the homesickness many of the immigrants experienced; as well as the need to stay connected with family and to create an Irish community in America.”
Boston Pilot Listings from 1847:
16 October 1847
Of DENNIS MCCARTHY, late of Killmichael, co’y Cork, who sailed from Liverpool on the 1st of last May, and left his wife, Ellen Ahearn, in Quarantine near Quebec, in June. She is now in Troy, N. Y., and wishes to know his whereabouts. Any information respecting him will be thankfully received by addressing a line to Ellen McCarthy, care of Stephen Duffy, Troy, N. Y.
Of JOHN QUILMAN, late of the parish of Inch, co’y Tipperary, who sailed from Waterford with his family last April. His daughter, Mary Harrington, wishes him to know that her husband, James Harrington, died on their passage to this country; also her two children since. She is now in Troy and wishes to know where her father is. Any information respecting him will be thankfully received by Mary Harrington, care of S. Duffy, or Mrs. Daly, Fifth street, Troy, N. Y.
27 November 1847
Of ANTHONY and PATRICK WATERS, natives of co. Mayo. They are informed that their sister, Mary, who was married to Patrick Boyle, is anxious to hear from them. Her husband died on the passage. Should this meet their eye they will write to her immediately, care of the editor of the Pilot, Boston, Ms.
4 December 1847
Of BERNARD MURPHY, who emigrated from co. Armagh, parish of Grangemore, townland of Aughmagorgan, in April last, with his father and 2 sisters. He parted from his father at Quarantine Island, below Montreal. It is supposed he went to Kingston. Any information respecting him will be thankfully received by his father who is now living in Dover. If by letter, address Patrick Grimes, Dover, N. H., or John Doran, No. 6 Canal street, Boston, Ms.
11 December 1847
Of CATHERINE GILLEN, who landed in Boston last spring, with her father and family. She was sick and went to hospital and has not been heard from since. Any one knowing anything of her would confer a favor on her father, Hugh Gillen, by writing a letter to him in care of John Devlin, Pawtucket, R.I.
18 December 1847
Of BRIDGET CARROLL, a native of Killacooly, parish of Drumcliff, co. Sligo, who was taken into Grosse Isle hospital, below Quebec, in June last, and has not been heard from since. Any information respecting her will be thankfully received by her brother, Patrick Carroll, care of Mr. Samuel Downer, Second street, South Boston, Ms.
1 January 1848
Of PETER and ELLEN CARR, natives of county Down, parish of Gervathey, who left home in April and landed in St. John, 4th July. They came in the ship Ambassadress. Ellen had the fever and was taken to Patridge Island, and Peter remained with her. Any information of them will be thankfully received by their brother, John Carr, Lawrence City, Ms.
Article originally published in May 2010.
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Switch to the desktop site to post a comment.ciaradexy | Feb 01, 2012, 11:18 AM EST
Ah there he is! Aul Gearoid! Another 'Oirish American' yeah? Youre another lover of the Americanized version of Ireland are you? Nice one! Sniff sniff...
Gearoid4 | Jan 30, 2012, 03:30 PM EST
C. Dexy knows how to make an entrance. Maybe the B.S she detected was her own.
joycean | Jan 30, 2012, 09:26 AM EST
IrelandNorth, We already have a 51st state lined up, Puerto Rico. And the District of Columbia would love to be a state.Ireland is in no danger of being annexed. You are right about the grief, though, even though no one alive today lived through it.
IrelandNorth | Jan 30, 2012, 07:25 AM EST
They used to have what they called emigrants wakes, i.e. as real as a wake for a recently deceased folk. Emigration was as real a death, for which many Irish/Americans have never worked-through, or fully grieved. Sell Ireland to the Americans as the 51 st. state of the Union, thereby solving all economic, political and neutral issues in one fell swoop.
ciaradexy | Jan 29, 2012, 04:56 PM EST
Gearoid, I can sniff out bullshit from a mile hence the reply.
Gearoid4 | Jan 29, 2012, 04:28 PM EST
@George, C Dexy right on cue.
joycean | Jan 29, 2012, 10:42 AM EST
ballyhip, So the Famine Irish (the Houlihans) quickly made it to lace curtain Irish! My grandmother arrived in Boston in 1899, age 15, orphaned, with her 11 year old brother in tow, and the next year was employed as a maid. But in 10 years, she was married to a man who came to Boston from Canada of Irish ancestry, started his own business, and helped her brother start his own business. My grandparents lived in a gracious, 5 bedroom home in Dorchester, and eventually had 7 children and over 30 grandchildren. The secret was serial immigration. One Irish person immigrated, then paid for the passage of a relative. As one became successful, he helped another. My grandfather had a couple of very successful relatives.
ciaradexy | Jan 29, 2012, 10:01 AM EST
Do you think that people coming to Ireland from the Middle East or Africa in the back of a container on a ferry over a period of a few weeks is a lifestyle choice? If you do then you are a bigger fool than I thought Georgie. Obviously if people are starving and have no hope and fear for their lives then emigration isnt a lifestyle choice.
ballyhip | Jan 29, 2012, 10:00 AM EST
Just to illustrate the progress that was made by the time my Mayo mother landed in Boston in 1929, her 1st employment was as a domestic with the Houlihan family in Newton, MA.
ciaradexy | Jan 29, 2012, 09:59 AM EST
Ha! Well Georgie, my brother is in New Zealand. That was a lifestyle choice! he left a job here to go there! Next point? You obviously dont know what the term 'Oirish' means. It refers to plastic paddys. Those who exacerbate the begorrah bejaysis stereotype of Irishness so that wouldnt refer to people from Ireland, only those with an Irish link.
Gearoid4 | Jan 29, 2012, 08:53 AM EST
@George,Saltpetre and C Dexy will be here,anon, no doubt.
Mickwall | Jan 28, 2012, 05:31 PM EST
You can learn more about the Irish Hunger (Famine) at the Irish Hunger Committee blog. Visit irishhungercomm.wordpress.com - also give your own input by posting comments.
GeorgeDillon | Jan 28, 2012, 05:04 PM EST
Expect some of our Oirish posters like curpeter and curdexter to be on soon to tell us that emigration was a lifestyle choice of the people described above.
brenvancouver | Jan 28, 2012, 12:46 PM EST
With all the evidence now avalable of the events leading up to the years 1845-48 and during those years those who perished did not die from a natural shortage of food.
carrickcourt | Jan 28, 2012, 11:48 AM EST
'Missing Persons' while being very sad has been helpful for many with their Irish-American family history research.
bunkerisland | Jan 28, 2012, 11:23 AM EST
It is a powerful record of tragic losses showing love and concern for family members.
Searlit | Jan 28, 2012, 11:13 AM EST
Really sad.