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Irish American grandmother gets jail for slapping granddaughter


Theresa Collier, 73, went to jail for hitting her 18-year-old granddaughter
Theresa Collier, 73, went to jail for hitting her 18-year-old granddaughter

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Theresa Collier, a 73-year-old grandmother, found her self behind bars in Florida for slapping her granddaughter when the young girl swore at her.

Collier, a church going Irish Catholic, has never been in trouble with the law in her life.

She broke down in tears as she said "My heart's going like this. I just thought I was going to die. I wanted to crawl in a hole."

The 18-year-old granddaughter in question, Felicia Collier, had come over to her grandmother’s house to use the computer. Since being expelled from Catholic school in Massachusetts Felicia has been finishing up the school year online.

Collier explained the reason for Felicia’s expulsion. “She said F-off to a nun! I would just crawl into a hole, said Collier, obviously embarrassed by her granddaughter’s behavior.

While she was meant to be working on school assignments at Collier’s house Felicia’s bad language continued.

"She kept repeating the F-word to me, about the whole family. She just went on and on and I just got so upset, I got up and slapped her across the face," said Collier. "She grabbed my wrists and I couldn't get out of it and she let one go and she punched me in the cheek."

The situation quickly escalated when Felicia called the police. What happened next shocked them both.

Collier said “The two officers came to each side of me and before I know it, they have my arms and they said, 'You're under arrest,' and they cuffed me."

Filled with remorse, Felicia tried to stop the police but she could not convince the officers and her grandmother was taken into custody.

Collier spent the next 24 hours in jail. She said they were the worst hours of her life.

Walter Collier, her husband said "My wife of 52 years went to Catholic Parochial school, went to church, she's a good strong Catholic and raised four kids and no one ever spoke to her like that."

"I think it's ridiculous. We're hurt so bad, I'm so scared she's going to have a heart attack or a stroke over this. She doesn't sleep, she bursts into tears and I'm almost doing it now."

Though Collier’s arrest might seem quite harsh the state of Florida has a mandatory arrest policy for domestic violence calls. She has been charged with battery.

Lt. Mike Loux, with the Largo Police Department said “If an officer on scene finds probable cause to arrest a person, because they've committed domestic battery, then our policy is a mandatory arrest of that person.

"The discretion does not come because the victim does not want to prosecute. It doesn't come because the victim has remorse for calling police."

Collier’s first day in court was last Wednesday. Her granddaughter was present and attempted to sign documentation which would allow her to cancel the prosecution. This will not change her elderly grandmother’s charges.

Theresa and Walter Collier have not spoken to their granddaughter since the incident.


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TO alioops------This country is so mixed up these days.A good slap to someone talking to her grandmother like that is well deserved. We were slapped by the brothers and nuns years ago and our parents if we deserved it. We grew up ok not like this sad generation.
I can not believe the cops took this poor woman away to jail. Teenagers can be bad news this teen is out of control.
I don't feel sorry for Grandma. Who ever said slapping a kid made anything better? Now Grandma has plenty of time to think how she might have handled the situation WITHOUT violence.
Thats absolutely ridiculous. I mean come on, between the two the grandaughter should have been the one in trouble I mean she punched her grandmother. Please go arrest the actual criminals.
it's unreal the cops have to come into the real world, i mean a 73 year old granmother come on.
That's despicable. My thoughts go out to poor Mrs. Collier. Let me say though, that there actually are a great number of teenagers with manners and a sense of respect for their elders. I'm 16 and neither me or my siblings would say a curse word in front of our parents or grandparents, much less when we're addressing them, because it's disrespectful. I'm not even going to say what would happen to me if I were to raise a hand to any adult. So please don't make a generalization about a whole population based on the terrible actions of one.
This shows how some laws are just out of hand and that the descretion of some of the the police and their judgements they are making are rediculous remember the little girl who was arrested for writing on her school desk.
The law in Florida does give the officers discretion in a case like this, however, according to othe local newspaper the grandaughter is the one who filed charges against the Grandmother so the officer had to arrest her. The local outcry and subsequent investigation resulted in the charges being dropped. The Grandparents refused to file charges against the girl and banned her from their home. No word yet about the absent parents.
This is unbelievable. I work in law enforcement and know that it's up to the officers on scene to use their discretion but if they're going to arrest the grandmother then the granddaughter should have been taken into custody as well. But I also wonder about the granddaughters parents; they have to take some responsibility for their foul-mouthed spawns behavior.
If I had even attempted to hit either my mother or my grandmother, I'd of pulled back a bloody stump!
She should have been named Principal of South Hadley High School instead.
18 years old and too stupid to understand that you do never talk to Nuns or Priests in that manner, much less your own grandmother (of anyone else's grandmother, for that matter). I realize time have changed (in my day she would have been unable to sit down for a week or so); but a slap in the face for such disrespect is not a significant punishment; and the loss of her grand parents' support will prove to be a much greater penalty. By denition, I would call her a spoiled brat. Tols a nun to F___k off?
The young one needs bootcamp and major community service but, having said that,the laws are in place for a reason. Kids are abused daily by family members. This particular young one abused the severity of those that are really being abused and she obviously needs some serious help. Really hard to believe she's 18!
I think it's terrible that the police officer thought the grandmother was the problem here. Thats whats wrong with society, You can't discipline your own.There is no respect for the elders, lets see what happens to this 18 yr old out on her own?
The adult granddaughter is a mess. She needs therapy fast. Could be bi-polar but is well on her way to a life of trouble. Granny is smart ditching her. Grandbrat will continue to bring her down.




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