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Glenda Moore, mother of Irish American boys who died during Hurricane Sandy confronts neighbors who failed to help

Glenda Moore grieves the loss of her two young sons


Glenda Moore, and her husband, Damian Moore, react as they approach the scene where of their childrens' bodies were discovered in Staten Island, New York
Glenda Moore, and her husband, Damian Moore, react as they approach the scene where of their childrens' bodies were discovered in Staten Island, New York
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Glenda Moore, wife of Donegal native Damien Moore, has confronted one of the neighbors she claims turned their backs when she searched desperately for help during Superstorm Sandy as her two young boys were swept away in floodwaters.

The Irish Independent reports on the tragedy, just one of many stemming from Superstorm Sandy that rocked the Eastern coast last week. During the storm, Glenda Moore lost hold of her two young sons, Connor, aged 4, and Brandon, aged 2, as floodwaters engulfed them when they were trying to escape to safety.

"I asked you to help me, you bastard," the grieving Moore screamed at the man she claimed ignored in her search for help, a neighbor said.
 
The Irish Examiner reports that Moore had taken her two sons in her and her husband’s pick up truck to head for shelter after the storm began and their house lost electricity. Glenda’s husband Damien Moore was at work with the city council preparing for the massive storm.
 
En route, Moore encountered severe conditions, and the truck was knocked about in the high winds. When she got out of the car, she found herself waist-deep in floodwaters. She grabbed her two young sons in hopes of moving to higher ground, but another gust of wind blew them from her grasp.
 
The boys perished during the height of the storm on Monday, and their bodies were found three days later after an extensive search.
 
Police confirmed that Glenda Moore banged on the doors of homes on Father Capodanno Boulevard in Staten Island looking for help for her two sons on Monday during the storm.
 
The man Moore accused of not helping, however, reportedly thought he was being robbed when the frantic mother came looking for help. The morning after the incident, the man who didn’t help reportedly told neighbors that he thought he heard a burglar at the door during the storm.
 
A neighbor of his said, "He said somebody knocked at the door and he thought they were robbing him. . . He said: 'I'm not going to open the door, I'm not crazy.'"
 
Another neighbor said, "He's a nice person. He volunteers on the block. I don't see him as a person who wouldn't help.”
 
Still, Glenda Moore is left grieving the tragic loss of her two sons. Similarly, Connor and Brandon’s grandparents back in Donegal are grieving the loss as well.
 
Fr Philip Daly, the priest of Damien Moore’s home parish of Portnoo, has been comforting grandparents Paddy and Fay following the tragedy.
 
"You can’t put into words what she must have been going through," said Fr Daly of Glenda Moore. "That awfulness wasn’t helped by the actions of these so-called neighbours who refused to give support to the poor woman.”
 
Fr Daly noted how Damien Moore, who emigrated to the US in his 20s, often came back to visit his extended family in Ireland. Sadly, his children never got to visit though.
 
Fr Daly added that while the grieving grandparents won’t be able to fly out to the US for their grandchildren’s funerals this week, a memorial mass is being organized at St Conal’s Church, Kilclooney.


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Like many of African heritage she feels she is "Entitled" to aid and support by others who work for a living.
Irishranger -" You are not speaking in my Iirish name.You are the same kind of white trash I encountered in Boston" I resent this post I'm Irish American from Boston. I'm a nice person. I have taken in people when they were caught in a storm and when I lived in Chicago right Michigan Ave. I took food to them at night. MOST irish people have a heart as big as gold
Simply assuming that people disagree with the actions of the mother because she's African-American is racist in itself. If she were European-Amaner instead and people criticised her there would be no outcry. Why should her actions not be criticised based on her race? THAT'S racist.
Given the looting that was occurring, you can't blame the man for thinking he was about to be robbed. I probably wouldn't have opened the door either.
Some of the comments posted here are bigoted and nasty beyond belief. I agree with McNamara31: IrishCentral should not allow posts like these.
Do you EVER comment on the ex-pats living in CANADA? Or is everything about the UNITED STATES OF America (or, as you incorrectly call "AMERICA") Let's have some news about the west coast of Canada and it's MANY ex-pats.
Hard to feel sorry for someone that was told a week earlier to get out and go to higher ground. How stupid do you have to be to stay on a freakin island with a hurrican bearing down on you? Probably an Obama supporter.
Wow! This site is still filled with vile bigots. A family lost their 2 kids and people are waffling on about their colour? These kids were Americans like most of you on here. Show some human decency.
This is one of the saddest stories I ever heard in my life and I can't imagine what this family is going thru. Especially the mother - I am a mom myself and trying to put myself in this person's shoes brings tears to the eye. What kind of person would refuse help or ignore her cries for help - so inhuman. I pray for this poor mother.
@Niall.. Why would you allow a post such as this to litter the pages of Irish Central? Saying nothing, and allowing this type of outright biogtry, is as bad as the bigotry itself. This is not free-speech, it's hate pure and simple....."GhettoNuker | Nov 10, 2012, 10:22 AM EST Oh, good riddance. Whites need to get off their knees, stop feeling guilty, reject the leftist indoctrination, and start THINKING CRITICALLY. The TRUTH of the matter is the LESS negroes on this planet the BETTER it is for White people."
Where is the compassion amongst the majority of you? Are any of you Christians? It's hard to tell.. This poor woman, everyday for the rest of her lifve will get up knowing her children aren't going to be there. And the father as well. Pray for them that they might have some peace. And these children were African American as well; I feel some of the lack of compassion is due to racism..sad!
hooligan6a How does it feel to sit upon your high perch and judge this mother who has lost two children? Where do you live? Many never expected this storm to have the intensity or were afraid to leave their homes. Did you see how many remained in Breezy? (Oh, but they're our own kind I guess)... And to the bigoted comments at the beginning of this thread ( Rot/Clocktower)I truly hope all your evil comments come back upon you to teach you a lesson in empathy.
Hold on, How did the kids die? She survived. Why was she banging on the neighbors door instead of getting out of there? What did she want the neighbor to do? Why did she wait so long to try to escape? We are making judgements and we don't know the whole story.
Didn't Mary and Joseph look for safety when Jesus was born? They were turned away too.
I'm sorry her kids died. She feels guilty that her actions resulted in the death of her children. She is trying to make herself feel better by blaming the result of her actions on others. I wouldn't leave my house during a hurricane to run around looking for missing people. If it was safe to do so she could have swum after her kids, grabbed them quickly, and walked home. She wanted her neighbors to fix her mistakes and she didn't care if they died in the process. Her neighbors are not responsible for her decisions and they shouldn't have to prove their worth by dying to correct her mistakes.




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