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Dublin prostitute's memoir could entice women into the trade, warn experts


Memoir of a prostitute "Between the Sheets" by "Scarlet O'Hara"
Memoir of a prostitute "Between the Sheets" by "Scarlet O'Hara"
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A new book from a Dublin woman's alleged double life as a prostitute could lure young women to "enter the trade," according to the Irish Independent.

'Between the Sheets' is the alleged factual account of a middle-class Dublin woman who embarked on a life of prostitution after she lost her job.
The author, who goes under the pseudonym 'Scarlet O'Kelly,' went into the world's oldest profession to maintain her "comfortable home and family lifestyle in the face of financial collapse."

The publishers, Penguin Ireland, are already claiming it will be one of the  "most controversial" books of the year.

They also added that they are satisfied that the woman's account is genuine, saying: "The book claims to be 'an illuminating and explicit account of a year spent working as an escort in middle Ireland, a gripping account of living a double life -- and the high price it exacts."

Even before publication, the book is already raising concerns among those working with prostitutes.

"Prostitution is dangerous and may have health consequences. There is the mental health aspect; you cannot wake up the following day and get on with your life. It is detrimental in so many ways and it is very sad that it still happens," said Nusha Yonkova, Anti-Trafficking Project Co-ordinator with the Immigrant Council of Ireland.

"The author is anonymous. It is not possible to gain a full insight into her life. I think it is a very bad choice (as a book). They have to be accountable for what they are doing.

"The book would be read by young people who may be at an unstable point in their lives and this could act as an encouragement. It is very disappointing that Penguin has done this. I think it is purely to gain profits. It is a poor choice.

"The reality is that there are almost no middle-class, middle-aged women (in prostitution). The reality is that they are predominantly migrants from Eastern and Central Europe, poor central American countries and Africa. There are some Irish women, but the majority of them would also have addiction problems. That is the difference. They would not be people who have choices.

"They are strapped for cash and they need cash to survive and they take that temporary decision to do it for a while. In some cases they are completely controlled, indebted to the people who have falsified the migrant services they have received."

However, the author of the controversial tome is claiming the sex industry was nothing like she expected it to be: "I expected it to be seedy and awful and it wasn't."

She said that during her time as an escort and prostitute, she had had sex with more than 150 men.

But according to the Migrant Council of Ireland, the reality is very different from what is portrayed in the book.

Former Garda Detective Superintendent PJ Browne said that while he had not read the book, he was concerned about any impression that might be given that prostitution was a "safe" or "lifestyle" choice.


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Curitiba, I like horse racing & card playing!!
SingleDonald! Are ya shure yer not Daniel O'Donnell? The world's olderst profession. After politics, that is. And probably more honourable. It's a hard one to call. Sad that something so special is reduce to the status of a cash nexus. More acceptable if voluntary though, surely?
Thanks, SingleDonald. I think there are a lot of things are are legal that people might think are "sleazy", such as gambling and drinking, (both were banned at one time)but others don't and it is better that these things are controlled by the authorities than criminals, because they will take place anyway, whether you ban them or not.
Good points, Curitiba! I posted earlier on this subject, and pointed out how a legal heterosexual male prostitute, in Nevada, told a female reporter how he had been neglected by his mom, when a young boy. Your plan would solve most of prostitution's social ills. Yet, I wonder if we should legalize something which is sleazy in itself? Something like this should be given freely, from the heart! I know that some guys are only looking for a "romp in the hay", with no emotional sentiments, So, for them, I guess legalized prostitution would be beneficial. Concerning the hookers, I wonder if living this life, even with legalized safeguards in place, is realy a positive lifestyle, considering the emotional baggage they likely carry? There are pros & cons to this argument, which are very difficult to decide on!
Well, the answer is to legalise brothels, tax the pimps and prostitutes, introduce health and safety legislation to protect the health of the sex workers, and allow them to form unions. That will keep the organised criminals out of the game and put a stop to people trafficking.
The "World's Oldest Profession" should not be glamorized! There are severe pitfalls for prostitutes AND johns! For the prostitutes: Being beaten/shortchanged by the pimp; Having to deal with unstable men; Venereal diseases; Arrests by police; Possible drug addiction. For the johns: Being robbed and beated by the pimp; Having the girl run away with his wallet, while he is in the motel room bathroom, BEFORE any services are performed; Venereal diseases; Arrests by police; Developing a "love interest" in an often hired hooker. The last sounds absurd, I realize. However, there is always the chance that, if a guy pays the same girl, for frequent trysts, he may fall in love with her. The feelings would almost never be reciprocated. If the hooker has any values (not likely) she would tell her loving customer to look for affection elsewhere, or (miracle) leave the life of a prostitute and take up with him, legitimately. Then, consider the plight of human trafficing. I first learned about this 10 years ago, when Newsday (Long Island paper) ran a 4-part series on the subject. This is human degradation, to an extreme, and no man should want to be part of it!!
its a job and now that the tiger has nothing in its tank morality wise, keep watching rte programming for real shiite.
I wouldn't give credence to anything the "Irish" Independent prints. That's why I stopped reading this article after the first paragraph. Sorry.
 




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