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The pro and cons of marrying an Irishman


The pros and cons of marrying an Irishman.

Before you take the plunge or allow your Irish boyfriend  to put a ring on it, please review IrishCentral's list of the pros and cons of Marrying an Irishman.  It just might save your sanity, or at least it will prepare you for the madness that awaits.

 SIX REASONS TO MARRY AN IRISHMAN:

  1. Family is extremely important to an Irishman. Family is the core of an Irish man’s masculinity and the more children he has the more masculine he feels.

  1. Irishmen don’t sweat the small stuff. An Irishman has surprisingly great coping strategies. Stress isn’t in the vocabulary of an Irishman, chilled and relaxed is the way he embraces life.

  1. An Irishman will go out of his way to do nice things for people who are important to you. He will pick your mother up from the airport even though his favorite team is playing on the television, he will sit with your best friend and listen to her woes and he will take your brother to play golf even if he doesn’t like him. 

  1. An Irishman has a fantastic sense of humor. He makes light of serious situations, which can defuse an argument or simply make you feel better after a hard day's work.

  1. An Irishman’s loyalty to his friends is admirable. Aside from his family, an Irishman takes pride in his male friendships and goes out of his way to make certain his friends' needs are met in a generous and heartfelt manner.

  1. An Irishman’s heart is as big as the ocean. Although Irishmen might not be the best at expressing their emotions, their actions more often than not speak volumes.

SIX REASONS NOT TO MARRY AN IRISHMAN

  1. Mammy will always come first. He may love you but he loves his mother more; you are destined for a life of comparison. “This is how my mother cooks it, this is how my mother does it…. “

  1. An Irishman likes to have his wife do most of the household chores including cooking, cleaning and paying the bills. He may help out once in a while but overall it’s the woman who will always run the household with little direction or help from her Irish husband.

  1. An Irishman doesn’t like to shop. He thinks it’s okay to wear the same pants and shirt you met him dressed in six years ago to your mother’s retirement party. If you want him to wear new clothes then it will be your responsibility to shop for him. And don’t ask him to come along with you to the mall.


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sharon550 (March 14): All of my first cousins (children of Irish immigrants) would totally disagree with you, especially the one who seems to think that she is as different from me as Eskimos are different from Arabs.
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Irishproud. Time you and him indoors got a dog. Can`t be very comfortable with whatever both of you have squeezed up , you know where.
I suppose I could agree with most of this article.The fact that any person holds his/her Mammy/Daddy in high regard is about the best indication how they will treat their wife/husband.I wouldn't knock that one.As I often say to my teenage daughters.Choose wisely.A guy who disrespects his mother means you could be next in line sooner or later.
I hate lame catch-all articles like this. How long, Oh Lord, how long?
The comment about not shopping is true, I just hate it.
Um, is this meant as even a semi-serious piece? You patently haven't met any Irish people born after about 1800AD. When you do, please write an article about people who are currently alive. If you're basing this on actual Irish men that you've met, you've been meeting the really crappy ones. I can only suggest that you find better friends.
My dear brother Larry fits all the criteria, esp. farting! Think some of the con traits of Irishmen skipped a generation from he and grandpa... If the shoe fits. No phoneys here.
OMG! I've been looking in all the wrong places. I married a German jerk and apparently zigg'd instead of zagg'd! I want one! ;p
ummm...maybe I should have married by own kind?? But there are similarities in all men, good & bad. Never going to find a perfect man. However, I would say think twice before marrying anyone significantly older and someone who is not of your nationality...makes it that much harder.
I can agree but also respect it.
My wife might agree with a few of these!
i would have too say that my husband is a true Iirishman.because that is so him.
i have to say only 2 of the 6 things are correct -- mommy will come first and irishman can't dance. my husband does all cleaning and loves to shop! he does show some emotion and he doesn't pass gas in front of me at all




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