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The pros and cons of marrying an Irishman.

Before you take the plunge or allow your Irish boyfriend  to put a ring on it, please review IrishCentral's list of the pros and cons of Marrying an Irishman.  It just might save your sanity, or at least it will prepare you for the madness that awaits.

 SIX REASONS TO MARRY AN IRISHMAN:

  1. Family is extremely important to an Irishman. Family is the core of an Irish man’s masculinity and the more children he has the more masculine he feels.

  1. Irishmen don’t sweat the small stuff. An Irishman has surprisingly great coping strategies. Stress isn’t in the vocabulary of an Irishman, chilled and relaxed is the way he embraces life.

  1. An Irishman will go out of his way to do nice things for people who are important to you. He will pick your mother up from the airport even though his favorite team is playing on the television, he will sit with your best friend and listen to her woes and he will take your brother to play golf even if he doesn’t like him. 

  1. An Irishman has a fantastic sense of humor. He makes light of serious situations, which can defuse an argument or simply make you feel better after a hard day's work.

  1. An Irishman’s loyalty to his friends is admirable. Aside from his family, an Irishman takes pride in his male friendships and goes out of his way to make certain his friends' needs are met in a generous and heartfelt manner.

  1. An Irishman’s heart is as big as the ocean. Although Irishmen might not be the best at expressing their emotions, their actions more often than not speak volumes.

SIX REASONS NOT TO MARRY AN IRISHMAN

  1. Mammy will always come first. He may love you but he loves his mother more; you are destined for a life of comparison. “This is how my mother cooks it, this is how my mother does it…. “

  1. An Irishman likes to have his wife do most of the household chores including cooking, cleaning and paying the bills. He may help out once in a while but overall it’s the woman who will always run the household with little direction or help from her Irish husband.

  1. An Irishman doesn’t like to shop. He thinks it’s okay to wear the same pants and shirt you met him dressed in six years ago to your mother’s retirement party. If you want him to wear new clothes then it will be your responsibility to shop for him. And don’t ask him to come along with you to the mall.



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My dear brother Larry fits all the criteria, esp. farting! Think some of the con traits of Irishmen skipped a generation from he and grandpa... If the shoe fits. No phoneys here.
OMG! I've been looking in all the wrong places. I married a German jerk and apparently zigg'd instead of zagg'd! I want one! ;p
ummm...maybe I should have married by own kind?? But there are similarities in all men, good & bad. Never going to find a perfect man. However, I would say think twice before marrying anyone significantly older and someone who is not of your nationality...makes it that much harder.
I can agree but also respect it.
My wife might agree with a few of these!
i would have too say that my husband is a true Iirishman.because that is so him.
i have to say only 2 of the 6 things are correct -- mommy will come first and irishman can't dance. my husband does all cleaning and loves to shop! he does show some emotion and he doesn't pass gas in front of me at all
And where are all these marriageable Irishmen? My Irish father always said that I should.. Those emigrating to the US would do better to move to Florida; the weather is better and the cost of living much more affordable than Boston or NY.
excellent.
My wife can vouch for the above, Paddy73 you must be from the saxon side of ireland - they are better dancers! Finnmaccool; you should try it, farting puts a new ddimension on a relationship...if she is ok with you farting she can handle anything. Irishproud; they do, but blame the dog! and you accept it! Men Fart, and so do women! women are just better at blaming the dog!
a lot of irish men love to dance, love music and are great dasncers so u cant lump us into one big kettle of mulligan stew. we are individuals thru and thru.
im guaranteed irish and most of this is true, except the gas thing, i dont spend my day farting in front of my girlfriend but when i do i dont have a problem claiming responsibility! my future wife is swedish and she can make mountains out of molehills whereas i can simply laugh at the same situation, we balance each other perfectly, and she doesn't mind about having a few kids even though the average child per family(swedish not immigrant) here is only 1.5!
Antoinette, Ridiculous! You make Irish men sound like pigs. No Irish man would ever pass gas in front of me. If men do this in front of you,they have no respect for you. If you allow this, you either have no self respect or you must be doing this,too. That's just weird.
So true, especially the one about "loving Mama first"
Oh My God! This is so true. But I still would not have traded all these years for anyone else.
I'm 100% Irish and although some of it is true, certainly not all of it is true for me. This is a generalization that may be true for some but as with any stereotype, it will not fit everyone.
If Irish men can't dance where did RiverDance come from?
You have my husband pegged to a tee. It is amazing. He is an Irish-American but still is like the man in the article.
I loved it. Too bad I wasn't smart enough to understand all this as a young lass when as sweet young lad fell in love with me. I thought he was "too nice" and I sent him away. I married an Italian man instead and lived to regret it. But, my Irishman is back in my life now and we are very happy. I have sent this on to my daughter in the hope that she will learn what she needs to make her happy.
banal
I am here Jeanne1953. But you have to catch this Dubliner first. And at 81 I can still outrun most females.
Hey sounds good to me, where do I get one........
Mine does not have the mammy problem (thank the dear Lord) and insists on paying the bills. Other than that, you got him pegged.
Heather they are at home with their mammys. Irish men don't rush into marriage, they give us plenty of time to learn to cook, clean and babysit!!!
As an Italian American male, who has always liked Irish girls,I would like to see advice on marrying an Irish/Irish American woman! I'm sure somebody can provide such advice!
I am with you,Heather...A good man is hard to find ..a good Irishman even harder !
ooh, i didnt know there were any IRISHmen left to marry. Where are they? How do I find them?
 


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