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Richard Quarry’s amazing story ends happily after mother kidnapped his son last Easter. Photo by: Family's own

Irish father rescues son from Zambia after wife snatched him in Cork

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Richard Quarry’s amazing story ends happily after mother kidnapped his son last Easter. Photo by: Family's own

An Irish father has revealed the incredible story of how he snatched his son in Zambia after he was taken from Ireland by his mother.

Richard Quarry has told the Independent.ie how his seven-year-old son Ethan was snatched by his mother and brought to Africa last Easter.

Elizabeth Daka brought Ethan to Zambia from Cork last Easter at a time when Quarry had been granted sole custody of his son by the Irish courts.

He spent the last nine months desperately trying to bring his son home and eventually had to travel to Zambia to be reunited with his child.

He told Independent.ie, “It was just something that I didn’t see coming. When you’re a normal parent, you put your kids first and you would never do that to a kid – remove them from their surroundings like that.”

“Ethan lived with my girlfriend and me and her two daughters. His mum had access to see him every week for a day and a half.

“At Christmas time, we’d enter into an informal arrangement where she might have him for Christmas morning one year, and he’d be with me for the next one.”

“This particular time was Easter and she had asked me could she take him for three days. She collected him on Easter Sunday and the arrangement was that I’d collect him three days later. And before I was to collect him, I rang and the phone didn’t work.

“That was on the Wednesday, and on the Thursday my mother got a call from her to say that she was in Zambia with Ethan.”

Quarry was unable to pursue his case through the courts as Zambia has not signed up to the Hague Convention on International Child Abduction.

So he decided to take the matter into his own hands and left for South Africa and a 1500 mile drive across Africa after Christmas in a bid to get his child back and bring him home to Kinsale.

He revealed how undertook an exhausting trip through South Africa and Zimbabwe before eventually reaching Zambia where he employed a personal investigator to help him search for Ethan.

He then came up with an ingenious plan to see his son again according to the website when he rang his estranged wife to tell her that the Christmas presents he’d sent Ethan would be at the Irish embassy in Lusaka.

As Quarry had done this before, his wife did not suspect a thing and the personal investigator was then able to trace Ethan.

Quarry then bravely walked into his son’s school and took his son from his class before heading straight for the Zimbabwean border, where he was grilled for three-and-a-half hours because his son’s Irish passport did not have an entry stamp on it as his wife had taken the boy into Zambia on his Zambian passport.

He added, “I was incredibly nervous. I had researched Zambian law, and there is a crime of child abduction, where the sentence can be for seven years. But there is a way to allow for reasonable defense.”

The report says Richard pretended to the authorities that he was due to be reunited with his wife across the border and told them that she had mistakenly taken Ethan’s Zambian passport with her, and they were all due to go home to Ireland together.

He said, “We arrived at the border in our car and parked up just outside the office. We both walked in with our passports – his without stamps and mine with stamps.

“They went to begin stamping it but then they said ‘this passport doesn’t have the stamps’. I said basically that his mum flew into Zambia with him before me, on his Zambian passport. And they said ‘oh she’s not supposed to do that’.”

“It was the beginning of a three-and-a-half hour ordeal. They wanted to pick my story to pieces.

“I picked up my phone, pretending that I was trying to ring her, but I said that she must be on the plane. They painstakingly wrote a statement on an A4 sheet of paper.”

The border police eventually informed him that it was illegal in Zambia for a person to have dual citizenship and told him that they would be deported because Quarry did not have his son’s Zambian passport.

He continued, “I put Ethan in the car outside and I put a movie on, on my tablet. And I asked him to stay there. It was really hot and 30 minutes later, there was sweat dripping from his face, but luckily we had lots of water in the car.

“I really lied for Ireland to get through. They said it was illegal to have duality. And they pulled out a piece of paper, and in big bold letters was the word ‘deported’.”

“After that, there was still another hour of detail checking. I had to clear the vehicle and clear it with Interpol and customs. It was nail-biting stuff. It was absolutely nail-biting. I just thought, 'this can all come crashing down.'

“There was a huge amount of luck that they didn’t check my story out further.”

Father and son flew home to Ireland on Saturday to be reunited with family and friends.

Richard said, “I’m over the moon. I’m absolutely over the moon, and so is he. He’s so delighted to be back.

“We came back on Saturday morning and it’s lovely, everyone here is coming to see him. A couple of times, he’s said to me, Dad I’m so glad to be here.

“He didn’t have a great time in Zambia. It’s taking a while for things to come out but he was quite isolated there. We’re such an outdoorsy family here with animals around us, so he found that hard.

“The future for us now is really just to get back to life as we knew it. He’s going to go back to school and he’s already mentioned a few times the fact that he’s going to be seeing his two best friends. One is in school and the other lives down the road.

“So it’s really just about getting back into the swing of life at the moment. We just want a normal life.”

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